Hi I am 13 Male
I am a reallist
I love the color yellow
I am probabily one of the moth sensitive guys you'll meet
I have serious issues w/ my best friend who I currently have a crush on
I either want to be a Broadway light tecy, chef, teacher or councelor
I love dolphins
I love jean shopping and Chuck Taylor shopping
Much love
Carpe Diem
E-mail: uglyducklingsince92@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
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Age: 13
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Member Since: September 17, 2005
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ok..... PLEASE help me im SO stuck!!! well two of my BEST friends in the world are in a HUGE fight, they say i have to pick one of them. i dont want to pick one, but i dont ant them to fight!!! they sometimes fight OVER me!!!!!! but PLEASE help me im begging you!!!! im desprate!!!
ps. they talk about eachother and i dont want to talk about eather one!!! (link)
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i have been in more fights like this than you could ever know. dont take sides. wait till this fight stops then sit them down tell them how its killing you and tell them you cant take it anymore. if they are true friends they will stop fighting.
Hope this helps
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First off, I'd like to state that both me and my cousin are 13 years of age.
Okay, here's the deal.. In the past I've had a lot of prolems with depression and low self esteem. My cousin and I were VERY close, and I loved always helping him with his problem. But one night when he came over my house to spend the night.. I got in a fight with him and my brother. Now I'd seen him like fourty times over the summer, so we were bound to get into a fight sometime.
But this time I finally broke down.. It was way to much, living with a pompous brother, a dad who's always right, and a mom who I can't tell when she'll be happy or right on the edge of blowing up. So over the course of two days, it went from I'm just a happy-go-lucky little cousin, to a emotionally unstable family member.
It had been planned that the three of us go over to my cousin's house the next day. Of course everything was a little tense between us the next morning, but we all went on about our business as if nothing had ever happened.
I stayed the night at his house that night, but brother decided he was ready to go home. For about three or four hours that day we just talked, and I cried most of the time, silent tears.
Now before I go on I'd just like to say I love my aunt more than anyone in the world at that point. She takes me in her arms and just holds me, telling that everything will be fine and that I'm pretty and smart and how she knows what it's like living with who I was living with..
The rest is history. But now my cousin feels like he can't talk to me anymore, and that kills me inside.. Talking to him about my own problems is hard enough, so talking to him about that is pretty much out of the question. I don't want to risk our relationship any further..
I'd love for some advice, but please don't be harsh. (link)
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well i think that you should talk to your cuzin.
Cuz if i know him which i think i do he has had the same problem, he just doesnt want to hurt your feelings about breaking down. He also doesnt want to overload you anymore. call him as soon as you get this message tell him everything and he will tell you everything. it will strenghthen your relstionship.
Hope this helps
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for some reason i have trouble meeting people..idk i have a social problem.lol.yeah ur probably not laughing.how do i make friends because in all my classes i have people from last year that i hate or they hate me or dont want to get to know me because im not in the 'cool' group or my style of clothing which is like punkish shit and another thing is that how do i meet a guy..because im not pretty and dont say everyone is pretty blah blah blah well everyone says im pretty like girl and older people but no not guys those assholes.how do i like help all this (link)
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Don't hold on to past disagreements; bury the hatchet with those you aren't very fond of! Grudges get you no where, and that's coming from a master grudge holder. In order to gain friends, you have to be a friend.
And all guys are idiots.. none of them are actually going to say that you're pretty, so just take pride in yourself and smile politely when you recieve the compliment. The right guy will come along eventually!
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Last year was my first year at this one school. In one of my classes there was this girl named *Kasey.*
She annoyed me so much. She tried to make me look bad, and make me feel like there was something wrong, or I was doing something the wrong way. But at the same time she tried to buddy up to me. She tried to become my friend and become friends with my bff. My bff doesn't like her(like me) and hse is really getting on my nerves. She is doing it this year to. my bff, her, and i are in the same class. If we do partners she either tries to have me or steal my bff from me and IT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!
Whatdo I do to get her to bug off? I RATE HIGH!!! :) (link)
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Well I suppose just try telling her off.
If that doesn't work when you have group projects make sure shes not in them.
Also change seets get away from her
Also just dont talk to her at all
Hope this helps
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i really like my friend but he doesnt know, i have known him for a LONG time and i just spend like half of the day with him.i dont know what to do because i really like him but i cant tell him how i really feel cause then are friendship might be lost. what should i do??? (link)
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Well there is basically two things you can do.
you csn take a risk and ask him if he likes you
(and it probally won't hurt your friendship). Or you can keep it bottled up inside till it kills you this has happened to me it will kill you if you keep liking him. You may also want to talk to a trustworthy friend who knows him.
Hope this helps
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