I'm 16 and a bruised member of the Sun Valley guard. I like rock climbing, camping, white water rafting, pretty much anything to do with the outside. Most of the time I'm at school, the rest I'm at guard or with the friends. I have a little brother that's 13, we pretend like we don't like each other, but really we're pretty tight. I tend to be my friends soundboard, so if you want someone to listen or if you want advice, talk to me! Signing out, Em'lee
Gender: Female
Location: Matthews, North Carolina
Occupation: Bertucci's
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: November 21, 2004
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Okay so i need some help in helpin out my best friend.. so here goes with some background information. my friend met this kid over the summer at her camp, well it turns out he lives in the neighborhood where we go to school at. well my friend chills with him sometimes and she really likes him ALOT, but the thing is he says he doesn't want a girlfriend and everything but he's trying to get my friend to have sex with him!! i mean she asked me for advice and i told her she shouldn't because i mean she's 14 and she shouldn't lose her virginity to this guy who she doesn't even go with.. and it's kind of obvious that all he wants is to hit it.. well she went to 2nd base with him and i'm afraid she's gonna do it with him and he's gonna like stop talkin to her or just use her for sex. i mean i don't want that to happen to her but she won't listen to me she like wants him to like her. and he'll say all this stuff like yea after we have sex we'll go out, and i'm like yea bullshit. but she believes his lies and she needs to wake up and smell the coffee..lol.. so what can i do to help her out? help me out please. thankies i'll rate you too.. buh bye. (link)
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Tough love. Sit her down and tell her straight. Even if it makes her upset, do it anyway. Sometimes the best road isn't always the easiest. Make sure you assure her that your worried about her and that you just want her to be safe. Make sure she knows your fears and that you have something to back them up with! An argument (especially an accusation) is always stronger with examples. I hope I helped. Em'lee
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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok? (link)
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Of course it is! My bf's friends are like my brothers, we hang out all the time. As long as everything you and your guy do isn't plagued by friends then you should be fine. Hope I helped! Em'lee
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