iighty, my names diana. if we`re friends than you can call me dee. i was born in miami, FLORIDA but this dominican mami was raised in providence , RHODE iSLAND, SOUTHSiDE, all day everyday. i was brought into this world on 1.13.91. Poinciana High School is where im getting my education as a sophmore. I play softball for their varsity team [ #5 ]. i`m a down ass chick so if your a drama setta than fall back now. i hate twofaced ppl, back - stabbers, MY EX and liars so if you fit the categories than just leave now ! another thing that i hate is fighting w. my best friends so i try to avoid it as often as possible, that's why some ppl like to call me the " peacemaker ". i`m in high school so im d.o.n.e w. that middle school drama shit. i`m obv. 100% dominican so dont hate & fall back. i have the coolest & bestest friend here in florida & she goes by the name dawnrae cowdery. i also have another best friend back in RI who has always been there for me nmw & she goes by the name nicole sexton. i am currently a proud member of H.B.M which consists of me, gianna & kaytee .. what does H.B.M stand for ?! .. you wish you knew =P !! i`m getting tired of dealing w. ppl`s shit so i`m D.O.N.E .. talk all the shit you want cuz it doesnt phase me .. karma`s a bitch & i wont be around to see it bite you in the ass .. sorry ! i dont have anything else to say so if you have any questions message me or if you know the s/n IM me. kthanxbye `1 ♥
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Location: providence but living in kissimmee =/
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Age: 16
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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.
is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?
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i would love to help you on w.e you need help on so if you still need it just message me or IM me on AIM @ .. iCRYforY0Ux3 or look for my myspace w. my e-mail dominicanprinss03@yahoo.com .. i`ll be online all night
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mmk see i have this friend. ok well i had this friend and we became bffs over like 4 months-ish and then she met some girl and poof they are best friends ( supposivly ) and then me and her initiated her into our little frienship circle. the new girl was the third wheel i can tell you that for a fact. she was just different than us. and she did stupid stuff over stupid reasons.. etc etc. well we got into a fight and now we aint friends. shes like mad at me or something.. what should i do? (link)
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well i can tell you from experience that she prolly feels like a " replacement " talk to the girl and ask her how she feels, and let her know how things are going down & how you feel. talking is the solution to MOST problems so just try it, if you need help on what to say then come back here & i`ll help ya out or IM me at este xx corazon .. sry if i didnt help & good luck :)
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DEEEE iTS KAY. i have serious problems. my best friend is going to new jersey & florida til NEXT FRiDAY. and like whenever i am sad i always walk to her house or we always talk and met up some one to just calm me down whenever im aggravated or angry or sad or something so idn what im gunna do when shes gone. like where do i go. maybe i`ll just not stay home but i think thats a little to obvious when im away all the time so my parents will problly think somethin is up PLEASE HELP DEEEE (link)
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well i dont know what to say. i mean itsz gon` be ok, it's not like she`sz gone for good. just try to stay outtah depression & avoid anything that'll get you mad or upset but if pushing comes to shove you can always talk to me & IM or w.e at este xx corazon but yeah you can alwaysz talk to me if anything sry if i didnt help much but yeah if yu needa talk about w.e is on yr mind then IM me .. im online now
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Well I have a best friend and we haven't spent time together totally for 3 to 4 weeks. She and I have been busy as heck. Twice she spent the night over this over girl's house. She calls her, her best friend too. But she's told me that I’m number one. Well now I’m starting to feel left out because I also know her other best friend and we get along well. I just can't stand them being together hanging out and I’m never invited like when the other girl invited my best friend, Kay, to sleep over. She doesn't even call me that much anymore. I remember like in the beginning of the year that the other girl, eliz, was not in the picture and now she's treating her as she's been there for her like I have and SHE HASN'T! She's now including her in everything of her thoughts. I feel like if she had to choose between me and eliz needed to be helped up off the edge of a cliff she would grab me, but after talk about eliz the whole time. We also go to different schools like I go to high school and they go to junior high. Kay even cried when eliz needed to talk to me and didn't want to talk to Kay secretly. I was pissed on how she cried over her and I thought would she do the same to me. When they recently had a sleepover last Friday and she was showing me pictures of the sleepover and she had a picture of them together with the word "best friends" at the top. I felt my heart break that moment. That sleepover was for a "project" which they just played around the whole time though. I barely see Kay anymore and we live so close like 5 seconds from each other's house that I can see in her windows. But she sees eliz 24/7 though. She's also about to go on a cruise for a week and I won't see her than. I wanted to spend this time with her. I'm wondering if she even cares about me anymore really. My friendship love for her is fading. She's even keeping secrets from me like letting that eliz girl know before me and she promised she wouldn't do that in the beginning. She's acting different too and I don't like it. She tells me I’m totally #1, but the way she's been equaling me to this eliz chick that thought sounds more and more false to me. I've known her for 3 years and she's known her for 1 and a half! She treats me like she would treat her. I'm not included on any that they do and I hate that. Also my other friends when we get together I try to get Kay to go quick. She didn’t even attempt to have me come along. I don’t know what to do about this. Am I being unreasonable or totally fair and have a right to be a little ticked? Please help!! (link)
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oh emm gee that soundsz just like meh and mii " best friend " .. letsz call her 1 and the other girl 2 .. well meh and 1 were really close and everythinq then during x-mas time 1 and 2 started havinq partiesz and sleepovers .. im in high school and there only in 8th gr. what i did was give them there space let them have fun or w.e because at the end i was still number one .. it took time but all you have to do is qive it the time that it needs. if you want you can even tell her how you feel like i did .. she`ll listen .. friends are supposed to tell everything to each other even if its not what the other person wants to here .. if i didn't help you then IM me [ soy x3 rebeLde ] or w/b .. good luck !
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My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now. Problem is: he says he likes me! And I'm kind of into him too! I don't know what to do, thats like my bestfriend. I sure don't want to ruin our friendship but oh my goodness I am really into this boy! (link)
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as the sayinq qoes ..
BOYSZ WiLL COME N GO BUT BEST
FRiEND`SZ ARE HERE TO STAY !!
if yu stick to that quote then ii think yu
shouLd forqet about that kidd because itsz
not qunna last forever so once yu lose the
quy yu would no lonqer have yr best friend
cuz even tho she saysz its ok she`ll still
be madd on the inside take it from someone
who`sz been throuqh that once .. ii hope i
have answered all yr questions if not srry
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ok long story...lately like for the last 3 months i've been really mad at my 2 best friends. but i dont have an exact reason why its more like 50 billion reasons that alone just sound trivial. anyway all together they pretty much sound like im jealous that they've been making new friends and hanging out wayyy more with other people(some of my other freinds) than with me. i told them and they dont understand what i mean, that i just want like some sort of effort out of them...something like an attempt to hang out or a movie invite but they're always talking about somethin they just did or are going to do with another person...or what their going to do with like their new boyfriend(who cheated although she accepted him back, and she said im too critical and that pple make mistakes) anyway what should i do like try to forgive and forget these just random things that drive me insane or what i dont want them to think im just a bitch...help
if you need more info. just write back and i'll explain more.
allllll 5s if you even try to answer!!!! (link)
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i know exactly how you feel, if i were you i`d pay more attention to those who really care about you. dont forget about them just focus on the other friends who care about you more and believe me someone from experienced, you will not regret it. sry if i didnt answer your question or if it wasnt what you wanted to hear, if you have more questions IM me on my AIM s/n soy x3 rebeLde
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this might be long but i realy have a problem
me and my friend had been best friends since 4th grade and have been there for each other through thick and thin. last year around febuary she moved to a different state.. but we still talked every day. everything was going good up until the middle of october... when i would call her but she wouldnt call back, and shed say she was watching a tv show or was too tired.. well that got old pretty fast, so i sent her something that was like you act like you dont care about me anymore and i get a 'you know i care' we got into a big discussion because whenever we'd talk for a little bit it would be about her... so for a couple weeks we hadnt talked, and then we finally did when i called her and it turned into a hour of crying and saying she still cared. we got off the phone and she said shed call me tomorrow, suprise suprise i didnt get a call. ive tried making casual conversation with her but she is always busy and has to go. then a week later i get a text asking why i havent called her and 'you say im not being a good friend' then it just got into a war and how im making a huge deal out of this... and she turned all of this around to be my fault when i dont think it is.. finally i just told her id have my cell whenever she wanted to talk.
i havent talked to her since and whenever i try to say something shes always like sorry im doing something brb its just stupid and im not sure what to do its like she doesnt want to even be friends with me anymore randomly. she doesnt even im me when were both on... i just dont know what i should do so if anyone has any suggestions let me know... thank you
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wow this is like the same thinq i went throuqh with my " best friend " when i moved away. lonq distance friendship is hard and takes a lot of time to qet used to. just because you moved doesnt mean she cant continue with her life. give her some time and qive her some space. she is prolly qot alot of thinqs in her hands tryinq to fit in, in school wait til she g
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HEEY DiiANA .. ii G0T A PR0BLEM .. i G0T THiSZ FRiEND .. AND HER NAME iSZ DiANA .. AND SHE`SZ S00000 AN0YiiNG ! JESUS CHRiST .. SHE NEVER LEAVESZ ME AL0NE ... DAMN iT SHE AGGREVATESZ EVRY-NE THAT LiVESZ 0N THE PLANET EARTH ! G0D ... CAN Y0U PLLLLLEASE HELP ME GET RiD 0F HER DUMBASSS .. ? 0R GET HER AWAY FR0M ME ?
XO JACKiEE =] .. L0L .. [ D0N`T Y0U SEE THE L0VE? ] .... AHAHAH
J.P. i L0VE Y0U DiANA
XO
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to jackie:
haha yu see .. ii have the same probLem .. this qrl jackie mann she qetsz on mii last nerve .. wudda surprise she even has the same name as yuu .. hmm .. lol well yeahh she'sz so damn annoyinq mann .. itsz qettinq aqqrevatinq to the point that i just wanna uqhhhh lmao .. so i cant heLp you there ! =P
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diana,
what do u do when your best friend could possibly become your boyfriend? you dont want him to be you bf but it just mite happen because he's the nicest,sweetest,person evurr 'nd you think you like him but your not totally sure?
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to a girl who needs help
well first of all if you dont want to do something i dont think you should be obligated to do so. if you dont want to go out with your best friend than you shouldn`t. now if you like him .. then i think you should give it a shot .. see what happens and maybe it`ll turn out for the best but keep in mind that if you do hook up if and when you`s break up the friendship you`s had before wont always be the same .. if you are not satified with what i answered then IM me otherwise i hope everything turns out for the best!
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okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!! (link)
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well in my opinion i think you should talk to your friend about it. if she denys it or keeps doing the same things than i dont think she is a good friend, speaking from experience, i dont think that`ll change. if she continues being mean then she`s just not worth the time, move on there`s better friends that care about you alot more. the more you grieve about it the harder it`ll be to forget and move on.
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