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hola! my name is kait. im fouteen. i swim, dance, twirl, and act. i loove my friends. i have no idea where i would be without them. my family is awesome too. without their support i could never be where i am today. my hopes for the future are to go to duquesne university, do the whole pgh. triathalon, and travel the many different countries. i love helping people and giving them advice..hope i'll be able to help you.

advice

My new best friend is a paraplegic. We have
become really close but he never talks about
it.

I do know he had some kind of diving accident
but that is all. We get along great and talk
about everything but this one thing.

Would it be really rude of me to just ask about
it? I'm asking because he is my friend and I
want to know all about him just like he knows
about me.

I don't want it to seem like I am being nosy
or anything because I really am not. Its just
I'm always wondering things about it and it is
distracting that I do.

How would you approach the subject?

Thank you for your time.

if he is your best friend, then im sure he wouldnt mind talking about it. some people feel its better for the to tell someone. its not being nosy or anything because you want to know because you care about him. i'd just be like hey what happened to you? and explain to him that you want to know but you dont want to come off as being nosy or anything.

hope this helps and good luckk!
xokaitox

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Ok im a senior and i have had these friends since freshmen year and our shopmore year me got in a huge fight and i stopped talkin to them all and now since its our senior year i want to get back to the way things once were so im just forgetting everything that had happened and moving on...do you think it will work out? and also do you think im dumb for tring to get my friends back?

i think thats great that you are being the stronger one to forget about it..but dont get upset if they dont want to make up..you'd be better without them if that happens

hope it all works out!!

xokaitox

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15/f
aight so like there are a lot of things going on in my life right now that i really need advice on so if you have even just a lilttle input that would be awesome. I have 2 problems((this could be long))

Anywho...((friend problem)) me and my best friend are like really close but sometimes she gets annoying. Like she tries to flirt with guys and they'll be nice nice to her n stuff, but then they will like totally talk behind her back and say shes annyoing n stuff. Also a lot of other girls say shes annyoing and they dont want to be friends with her. This girl is like one of my closest friends ever and i cannot justr stop being friends with her and i dont want to! She gets mad over little things and gets her feelings hurt easily so i have no idea what to do!!!
((boy problem))
so me and this one guy have had like a thing goin on for a lil while. But we arent and havent been going out. He is known for being a player and i know not to trust him but i like him a lot. I cant stop my feelings! Its not i get to choose them. Im obviously not the only girl in his life but hes the only guy in mine :(
Please dont tell me there are are "other fish in the sea and whatever because there is like no one good at my school. All the guys just want sex and they dont care about your feelings like your not even a person. I know im about to get screwed over(for like the millionth time) but i cant let go of him i donno what to do!!

I dont feel happy with myself anymore like nothing is going right for me and i know it souds lkie im just sitting here feeling sorry for myself but theres nothing for me to be happy for anymore!! i hate it.

friend problem :: i know exactly how you feel but you shouldnt care what others think about it...i know it seems hard but it sound shallow if you just stop being friends with her because other people dont accept it. maybe just try talking to her about calming down w/ guys and stuff but i'd suggest not to be mean about it just explain to her how to hang out with others in a more relaxed way.

boy problem :: it sounds stupid but there are other guys..if you dont let go of him soon, eventually you're going to get hurt.


as for everything else...its summer! turn off the computer and take a jog around the neighborhood or call some friends to hang out at the park or pool!

xokaitox

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My friend is going through a tough time for hie relationship. He was telling me how difficult the situation is the other day, and all the sudden, he said, "on the top of that, something else happened to me..........." but he doen't want to tell me what the "something" is, and asked me not to ask him either......

Now, all I can think about is what the "something" is!! What should I do? he asked me not to ask him, but why he told me "something" happened to him, but don't want me to ask??

maybe its nothing too important or maybe its embarassing for him to tell. if you really must know, just ask. if hes your friend he should open up to you.

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