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You want a good answer for whatever your problem is? The truth? I'm not going to fluff this up any--you've come to the right place. So ask away, and I will answer with my best advice, as frank as can be.
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today was last day of school and the last time im gonna see my close friend cause she is moving to korea tommorow. But ive been avoiding her for a while because i was upset that she was moving and now shes doing the same too so we dont really talk anymore.And then when the class ended i tried to hold my tears but i burst up crying but she didnt see it yet so she asked me to take a picture with her and she saw me crying and she was trying to cheer me up by saying "its okay" and "dont cry" but i told her "its not okay your leaving" and she got quite and keep *sigh* or saying UGH and she stayed there for like 5 minutes try to cheer me up because i was still crying but next thing you know she said 'im going now dont cry okay?" and she turned back and turned around and looked at me last time and went somewhere. why did she leave? and what do you think about this situation?
She might have had to leave, or maybe was unsure about how to calm you down and didn't want to deal with it. Also, she might have just walked away because you guys hadn't been talking for a while, and she might have found it awkward to talk to you againAlso, she might have just walked away because you guys hadn't been talking for a while, and she might have found it awkward to talk to you again. Make sure she knows that you just avoided her because you were so upset that she's moving. I'm sure she'll understand!
I actually have a friend who lives in Korea. We write letters, talk on the phone, e-mail, and talk on MSN. You might not see each other in person, but it will be easy to keep in touch!
If you feel bad about how things ended and want to see her one last time, try calling her up. Try and remain cheery...just tell her you're going to miss her. It's really hard when a friend moves, but there's really nothing you can do. Make sure you still talk to her once she's moved! Talking online is the cheapest way, although a bit impersonal. Maybe send her a surprise package on her birthday. You guys might have had a falling out, but you obviously still care about her, and she needs to know that.
my friends are all older than me and they all graduated. we have always been a grade apart but now their all gone moving to go to all different high schools out of state making new friends. and im still in grade school im in 8th grade and their all...gone. were already loosing contacts. im left with nobody i cant take it. i cry myself to sleep everynight because of it. their gone forever. most are moving states. i lost everyone. what do i do?
and one guy I LOVE HIM and hes far gone. were great friends but i dont even know now. what could i do!?!?
Try to continue talking to them as much as possible--but make new friends! Try talking to other people and inviting them to hang out. If you have so many friends just a bit older than you, I'm sure you can find some your own age.
I do cheerleading with my friend Stephie. she's one of my goood friends and she's also good friends with my two best friends sarah and johanna. Well me and my best friends have this trip to california planned out and its been planned for a long time. all of a sudden my friend Stephie was invited. online that night i IMed my friend sarah and told her that stephie was invited. turns out that stephie was on sarah's account. i told her i didn't mean it in a mean way, which i didn't! its just that we've had this planned with just my best friends and she was invited. the thing is, when i talked to my friend sarah about her being invited..she didn't mind at all. and weeks before she would mind even if stephanie was invited to something!
i don't get it at all but i didn't mean to hurt my friends feelings at all cause i love hanging out with her!! i don't think anything i say would make her think that tho
If your other friends want it to be just you three going to the California, just tell Stephie. Say you planned it in advance, and it'd be great if she came, but you guys are very close and had it planned as just you three.
Then try to make it up to her! Suggest that just you and Stephie could do something fun sometime (another trip, or something else). Make sure you tell her you feel bad and you love hanging out with her, but the trip was planned for a long time, and it was planned for just you three, and you don't want to cause any problems for anyone. She should understand.
by friend is mad because i like a boy she doesnt know... she like tells me who i can and cant be friends with... she also buts in with my relationship....she has major jealousy issues. what should i do...help please
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Kindly tell your friend to stop butting in on your relationships. If she doesn't listen and still tries to tell you who you can and can't be friends with, try telling her with more force and meaning. If she continues to do things ilke this to you, then I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. She's just going to mess up your life--believe me, I've had "friends" do this to me.
I have a friend but she likes the same guy I like what do I do.
Been there, done that! You have to be careful about this situation, depending how much you like the guy and how close you and your friend are...this sort of thing has ruined a friendship for me.
Just be open about your feelings with your friend. Tell her you like this guy as well. As long as you're honest with her and don't do anything that you know would hurt her, you can't go wrong. If she gets angry at you, then she's obviously not a very understanding friend.
Good luck!