I'm real easy to talk to, non-judgemental and very open minded. I'll do my very best to try & help you as best as I can, but wont try to force it down your throat.
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Location: Nova-Scotia, Canada
Occupation: QA Specialist in Agriculture
Age: 23
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Met a really cute guy. We went out couple times. He is smart, cute and nice to me. However, I felt that I'm not into him as much he's into me........I don't want to hurt his feeling if somehow he asks me "the question" one day, but I don't want to pull apart either. What should I do to keep just friend with him? (link)
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The best thing that you could do so that you don't lead him on is hang out with him less frequently, but still keep in touch with him. Let him know that you think he is a great guy but that you are better suited as friends. If he truly does care about you, he will understand.
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so lately i was hospitalized for o.d.ing on seroquel and now my friends dont trust me and are total assholes about the situation and i just want to move on with my life but they keep bringing it up. what should i do? i feel like im losing the ppl who are my everything (link)
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You are obviously going through a very rough time in your life, otherwise this would not have happened to you. What happens in these cases is often that the people who are pulling away from you had absolutely no idea of this rough time you were having, and are feeling threatenned by the fact they didn't allow themselves to be close enough to you to know this. They most likely don't know what to do to help you, and they are probably feeling scared that you will try it again before they figure out a way to help you.
Some of them, granted, are probably scared to know someone in your shoes and yes, some of them are probably just being assholes about it. You learn a lot about who your friends are in these situations, my advice is, keep the ones who are sticking around and value their friendship and loyalty. To those who are pulling away, let them know that you need them. If they still pull away from you, forget them, they aren't your real friends.
At a time like this you should be surrounded by positive people who just want to help you, you shouldn't have to face the strain of bad friendships. Lose them, and focus on 'the now' and worry about them later.
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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say? (link)
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Ask yourself if you can be friends for good reasons, or if you will only turn on each other again and talk trash about one another again. If there still is that hostility in you to say mean things, it's probably best that you keep away from being friends with her for a while yet.
If she really wants to fix things, hear her out. But if it's just a ploy, keep away. You don't have to waste your time playing mean games with each other.
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