I'm anonymous and wise. I won't tell you how old I am, what my name is, or where I live. I am female and have always been a good listener. I try my best to never lie, and sometimes I offend people with how blunt and honest I am. Ask me a question, and I won't be afraid to tell you the truth, and I also won't be ashamed to admit that I don't know the answers.
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why do some people judge someone by how they act when they are drunk?
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A lot of times people who don't have the courage to say something when they're sober have the courage to say it when they're drunk...so sometimes people say hurtful things when they're drunk. Also, if you get drunk it's definetly a reflection of self-worth and all that jazz...especially if you do it a lot. (CH)
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this is gonna be long..
okay. so my best friend's name is jess. she's been my best friend since 4th grade. well, in about october of last year, she decided to get a new best friend [katie] & kick me to second place. i was really really hurt because i never thought i would lose her. i still call her my best friend because she truly is my best friend.
i've tried so hard to get her back but nothing works. i want my best friend back. i have talked to her about it numerous times. she says katie has never had a best friend so now it's her turn to be in the "spotlight". did jess stop & think about our friendship? about how i would feel? about how this affects me? of course not. it's basically like she felt sorry for katie so now they're best friends. does she even care about what she did to me? doesn't seem like it. i really don't understand why she would do that to me.
i want my best friend back more than anything. i would do anything to have things back to the way they used to be. i feel so left out & isolated around them because they completely ignore me when we all hang out together. so now i have no best friend & i've felt betrayed, sad, mad, disappointed, & confused for the last 8 months. i'm beginning to think i'll never get her back. i will seriously cry if i don't [i have cried many times over this problem already].
please don't say stop trying or move on. i really don't want to. thanks to anyone that can help me. i'm crying as i type this.
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I've been in exactly the same situation. My best friend of 10 years started ignoring me and hanging out with a new girl who she started calling her "best friend." I was devastated and hated her for awhile, but then I figured the best way to show her what a good friend I was would be to stay just that: a good friend. Eventually her new BFF dumped her and she came back to me. She realized what a jerk she had been and apologized like crazy. I know your situation may be different but I still think the best thing to do is to always show what a good friend you are...and if she really values your friendship it will turn out alright. (CH)
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i love my best friend to death and today i did the noble thing and told her i made out with this boy that has totally used me for rebound twice..and now he hasnt been seeing any girls for a while now so yeah..and now shes gunna tell him to leave me alone and i dont want her too. i know its because she care but i wish shed let me make my own mistakes. how do i tell her becasue weve had this fight before.. (link)
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You shouldn't have told her. I love my best friends to death, but it's best to leave it alone. If it's not affecting her in any way than I probably wouldn't tell her, especially if she can't keep quiet. If she can't keep your secrets, it's not worth telling. (CH)
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