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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ? (link)
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Yep, you shouldn't label yourself. If you look at me you would suppose i was a "prep" but i'm not anything, and i listen to Rock and Punk. But you should really just sort things out with her, maybe you guys can be friends...just because youre different doesn't mean one thing. You should tell her something like "We are different and it's not working out because of the differences, i hope you understand where i'm coming from but i don't want you to hate me because of this" or something like that.
Tell her you still want to be aqaintences(sp?) ..like you'll say hi to her time to time...it wouldn't hurt to say hi would it? she'd probably be really sad if you just let it go and don't interact anymore
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Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =( (link)
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you could ask her to keep it to a minium on the boyfriend chat..and tell her you want to spend more time with her :]
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I've been really good friends with this one girl for nearly my entire life (I'm a girl too btw) and I've always considered her my best friend; however, she's never been very nice to me. She's not a very nice person at all actually. We may have had laughs and great memories together, but as long as I've known her she's always done incredibly bitchy things to me. She would give me something for my birthday and then take it back and give it to her bf. She's stolen the guy I liked right infront of me (and whenever I'm around she calls him on her cell just to make me jealous), she invites all of my best friends to her parties so they won't come to mine telling them that if they go to mine instead of hers that she won't be friends with them anymore... she constantly complains about how stupid I am... and other things like that too. I know that she's not a good friend, and I admit that I don't like her at all anymore! but she thinks that I'm her best friend... and it makes me sad to look back at all the things that we've gone through together. I can't just stop being friends with her can I? We've been "best friends" for over 11 years now! I don't know what I should do. If I told her that I don't like the way she acts I have the feeling that she'll punch me in the face because she's done that before... what should I do? (link)
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get an adult to talk to her with you..or a friend who is on your side, tell her she needs to stop the nonsense and come back to earth..nobody should treat anybody like that. Maybe she is just jealous of you.
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in 8th grad(in 9th now) my friend told me i was a bad case, and social disater..it really hurt, she said i lied too much when i wasnt even lying! she ended the friendship, i said it was okay but i couldnt get her off my mind we went to different highschools, etc. i saw her on friday at the mall she came up to me and said she missed me alot sadly..i cried..because i hated the fact she ended it and now misses it what should i dooo? i think i want this friendship back.. (link)
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Tell her she hurt you bad, and you dont think you could forgive her..tell her to share to you how much she missed you(no not in money or gifts) spend more time together, since you are in different highschools, go to the mall and shop or just talk, see a movie. Just tell her you just don't know yet but you want to find out.
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