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Hi,
I'm usually pretty good at giving advice, but this I can't help myself with. I'm 13 and I just got transferred to a new place. I've been here for two months now. As many people here are teens they love to act all grown up and I'm not comfortable with the kind of things they do and the language they use, so I'm not friends with anyone, I tried to adjust and get used to them but without a friend I just can't manage. I'm kind of shy but I can make friends easily, but no one is like me (a little kiddish and crazy) everyone loves to act all grown up. I'm having a tough time making friends, please give me some advice on how I can adjust or I'll end up a lonely girl who talks to herself (link)
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Okay before i even finish reading your question im gonna tell you ive been to 3 diff schools in the past 4 years and 7 my entire life. Okay so maybe you can prove to them that you can be grown up to just a bit. Im kinda with them on the mature side but when u get to know me i act 2 years old. You dont have to do the things they do or talk the way they talk but not everyone is going to be the way you want to and your gonna have to learn to accept that. Once one person thinks your cool to talk to everyone will youll just kinda have to put urself out there a bit. thats all i got for now but if you wanna talk more email me bellastar92000@yahoo.com or kik me at briellabella13 :)
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I like a boy he is goring out with my friend how do I tell him how I feel or if I like him its really really hard (link)
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To be honest i wouldn't tell him at all because you have a chance of losing your bestfriend. It would be worse if he felt the same way about you because boys are stupid. We all know this. Girls aren't any better but they don't realize girls get attatched too and if she finds out that your the reason they brke up it could hurt what really matters. Boys don't last forever. Me being probably around your age, i know. But if i were you i would have a talk about it with your friend. Slowly bring up the topic don;t jsut throw it at her. Give her some space. Make sure she doesnt feel pressure to break up with him over you. At times she may get suspicious when you are around him but it'll stop as long as you two don't act suspicious as well. But dont sweat it. If she gets mad at you obviously she isn't as good of a friend as you had thought. And maybe they won't work out but make sure if you guys do end up with a chance of dating that she is OKAY with it. Secretly no girl would ever be okay with it but eventually a new boy will come along. Trust me you'll be liking and dating a lot of boys before you find the right one. And losing a best friend isnt worth it because they are the ones who have been there and who need you most. So just talk it out with her and see what happens, plan for future responses maybe :) hope this helps a bit!!
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