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Q: who is your bestfriend?
umm, why?

Q: Hey, I need your help. The guy I like, I think he likes me...at school he flirts and stuff and he will put his arm around me, but this girl at my school has been saying hes only doing it because of pity and he doesn't like hurting peoples feeling...what she has said makes no sence what so ever because he calls me all the time and he puts his arm around me all the time. Is she just jealous, or does she mean what she said...
I can't really give a full based answer on that information but, a guy usually won't do stuff for pity so chances are she is jealous

Q: my girlfriend likes me a lot..i dont...how do i dump her without gettin her mad?
pay less and less attention 2 her she probably will start picking up a signal and ask whats up and just tell her it's not working out

Q: well im a guy and so far most of my friends have been girls, but recently i made a few guy friends and it jsut occured to me that i realy have no idea how to hang out with guys, what kind of activities etc...
i had the same problem up untill 5th grade, this is a list of things that never fail for me... Nintendo, SpongeBob, South Park, Football, Monopoly, Basketball, Rock 'n'roll, hoped that helped it did 4 me

Q: ok wellll.. i have alot of friends, but there all obsessed with me. its not like we all talk to eachother, they just fight over me.. they literally do. Like at lunch they all want to sit next to me and it get's really annoying. I feel bad because if i'm talking to someone or sitting next to someone other people feel bad. ahh they want to be just like me too. Don't get me wrong, i love them, but it's really immature too. I mean it's been going on for a long time and in 6th and 7th grade I could understand, but now we're in 9th. What should i do?
why the hell would you call this a problem? you can control these kids like Mario and Luigi. make them do what you tell them to they'll get pretty sick of it and fast!

Q: I've already asked this but didn't know how to ask everyone. I'm male, 25. I've been going through a very stressful time with my job and family recently - I got laid off despite excellent qualifications, because they have outsourced to Canada, and was quite severely depressed. I am introspective, and don't have many friends, but value the ones I do very deeply. Anyway, I rather stupidly decided that I would be jealous of my friends' families, and their lives generally, being so much better than my own. In a moment of despair I told some of my very best friends (some of who I fancy majorly, but that's another matter!! LOL) that I never wanted to see them again. I swallowed my pride a few days later and apologized, but I don't know if they'll ever truly forgive me. I don't even know what I'm asking advice for... Maybe how do I broaden my friendship circle so I'm not so dependent on these few, given how shy and reticent I am? Or how do I stop myself reacting angrily under extreme stress? I just feel so lonely sometimes, I don't know what to do. I know I need a more positive outlook but what possible reason do I have?
take some time off for yourself, don't talk to any friends for a while and then get all your freinds back together and act like you never left in the first place i can't garentee that it will work but, it does for me and im only 15

Q: i got this friend and i've been lying to them for a long tym..and now they've caught me lying (and a really big one) that is..and now they made a vow to nvr talk to me again... what should i do?? i've tried apologizing!!
well first of all one of the most dumest things you could do is lie to your freinds, but thats not the issue here. try an earn your frends trust back, prove that you won't lie anymore and then just give it some time

Q: my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?
you really need to tell someone who will listen to you about this. an adult should deffinetly be informed because no one will be happy when some one dies because of drunk drivers

Q: OK I know this might be a common question but I really need help...
My friends invited me to their pool party/birthday in 4 days. I am not one of their best friends but we are pretty close. They are identical twins *Kaitlynne and Mackenzi* so i was thinkin of goign to a stopre that sells personalize ditems but none realli carry names spellt that way. they love soccer and they are truning 14.. any ideas?
if u want to personalize their gift put their nicknames or see if you can get theri inicitals done instead

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bostonbadboy5252
Yo! I'm Drew I'm a 9th grader at Dracut High School, my favorite band is Aerosmith and I'm completely in love with Jessica Simpson! My favorite sports are lacrosse and snowboarding (yes i'm a jock). yah so thats pretty much all u need 2 kno =)

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