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i like this girl and i have no idea if the chick likes me. honestly i have no idea how she feels about me and she gives out a lot of mixed signals. she is part of our group at school and we also do after school stuff so i am afraid to ask her out on a count of making things akward. right now i am hoping that she doesnt like this other guy. i think i am going to do it but i am looking for a little reassurance.

Ask her how she feels about the other guy, casually of course. Try not to make it obvious. If you choose not to ask her if she likes this other guy, make asking her out 'bad a**' make her yours! All you have to do is have confidence, trust me confidence is sooo hot!If you act like its nothing it will be nothing, so it WON'T be awkward. It will only be weird if you make it that way. I hope this helps, you can do this!!! Good Luck!

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I was wondering how to go about asking a girl out if you don't know how she feel about you. i also dont know if she likes some other guy.she kind of giving me mixed signals. and this would make thing complicated as we also do extra circular activities together after school. i really really don't wanna make things complicated.i realy don't wanna ruin our freindship. what do you think i should do. i really like her and i don't even know if she knows it.

This has happened to me on the other foot before many times, and I'm still surprised every time it happens. Plenty of people mistake being friendly as flirting. All I can say is: it is a total risk and you never know the outcome. If you are going to take the risk and ask her out you have a few options;

GO big! The extra push might woo or persuade her so you have a higher chance of a 'yes'. Get flowers (not necessary) do it during an event that you are both at, it will make it mean more to her. However, the hurt will be greater if she says 'no' because you did go all out.

go small... this involves less risk but is not as affective. Just straight out ask her out.

Doing it face to face is always best.
Well I hope this helps. -seriously- Good Luck!

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i was walking up the stairs today with some of my guy friends when one was like, "melissa(me) bryan's looking at your butt". guys say that stuff alot but for some reason this time i just got tongue-tied. do you think he was? what can i say back to that kind of stuff when guys say it to me? like what is something i can say jokingly? and any other input?

Oh I've got a good one just ask "hey so do you like what you see?" Then you are no longer on the spot it is him and you can just say you were kidding. Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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me and my guy friend are rele tight so when my aunt was murdered i went to his house and cried literally on his shoulder. so any way emotions got really heavy and i ended up kisin him and i left embrassed and he has a gf so he told her because he is such a good person and she told every one eles they a re having problems now becuz of this and now im known as the "homewrecker" it sux cuz i just experienced a great loss
what should i do

This isn't your fault you were vulnerable and got mixed up! You should just go to his girlfriend and confront her by explaining that there is nothing between you and you were just in a bad place. If you don't want to explain the aunt thing because you are too fragile just say you are dealing w/ serious family issues. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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You are sitting on the ground, as your friend is sitting besides you, they slowly gets close to you and then grabs your arm and holds your arm and hug it as they lay their head on your shoulder and cruls up to you.
but thay are the same sex (females).
Do close friends do that to each other?
or is the one who is the toucy person is trying to tell you that they like you?

No, I don't believe she just wants a friend this girl seems to like you a little more than casually. She wants a little more than just a friend, it may not be "real" (her feelings)she probably is wanting attention more than a friend. Close friends that do that to each other are considering hooking up so I hope this helps and Good Luck!

Confront her gently if that is your plan!

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