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alright so me and this girl have been the best of friends since 1st grade. we were seriously inseperable up until about a month and a half ago. i think she has changed so much. for the first time we started partying and we met some new friends over spring break. well now she has been skipping school..shes failing the 10th grade. she doesnt do any work..she did have a problem with drinking but then she quit drinking as much. she yells at her parents and cusses them out if they ask her to help around the house. well lately its like i cant stand her. at first i like this guy alot and i started talking to him first but then he started liking her cause she was flirting with him constantly and they started hanging out and she made out with him and she knew that i really really liked him. she flirts with every guy that comes along. my other friend liked a guy and my best friend did stuff with him. on top of all that its like if i say something stupid she blows up on me and says "fuck you" and cusses me out even more. it seems like everyday we get into a small argument. like today.. we were in the lunch line and my friend asked how this guy we know found out about her and another guy and i said " well she might have told him" and my best friend blew up on me saying "i didnt fucken tell him so dont go blaming shit on me..you fucking always say and ask stupid shit" its like i cant stand her anymore. i dont want to lose her as a friend but i seriously think i am starting to hate her. and im not the only one that feels like this. 3 of her other friends feel the same way. what should i do?!?!?!? ILL RATE HIGH (link)
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You can't do much. You can not control her actions. The only thing you can do is to stay away from her. It sounds like you were best friends. But she's definitely changed. What you have to do is decide if you want to wait around to see if this is just a phase or move on. It will be hard to move on but know that what makes it hard is the fact that you remember the way she used to be. If you want to make it better, you have to look at the way she is now and base on what you know....answer the question of is she going to change. and if she is, is it soon enough to wait around for and put up with this for that amount of time. Good luck to you.
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One of my friends are trying to get her cousin and I together. Well we have met and we talk all the time She tells me that he really likes me. I cant say that i think about him all the time and that i really likke him but hes really nice and i like to hang out with him. Well he asked me to go to the beach with him on sunday. Well sunday i got online about 1230 and he told me that he probly wont go to the beach anymore because he has other plans. So im like alright and i just didnt think any thing of it. Later not even 30 minutes later he put an away message up saying Im going to the beach be back later on. (or something close to that) Yea so he pretty much stood me up and he hasnt said a word to me since. He has been telling his cousin that we talk all the time. I say Hey to him online and i never get a response and he at his computer.
Im 17 female . Hes 20
What should i do? Is it even worth gettting to know this guy anymore? (link)
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No. This guy is a liar and he stood you up. He's not worth your time. Every girl deserves better. It's summer. It's time to flirt and meet new guys. Forget this one. There's more out there that would be willing to treat you with respect. Good luck.
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Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.) (link)
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I know that's got to be hard. But you have to remember...maybe from her point of view you were being more mean than your other friend. And you also have to know...she's acting off of emotions right now. It's still hard for her too i'm sure. Give her time. If time doesnt heal it...then find other groups of friends to hang out with. Because if she cant learn to forgive, she's not a really good friend in the first place. I know it will be hard. But look at it as an oppurtunity to meet new people and become a part of other groups. Remember that when one door closes, another opens. It just might take a little longer than you want.
Good luck && hope it helped.
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well the last month i have been thinking about cuttin because me and this kid nmed ryan*MY LOVE*
have been fighting. i told one of my friends and they told my school counsler. my school cons. called me down and we talked about everything.. now im seeing a theropist witch im happy about.
but the other day i cut R in my leg..and i cut 4 lines kinda small on my leg.
last night i was talking to ryan on the comptuer and he said he would die for me,he loved me,he hates kelly(his EX)
and today in his profile he put kelly-i love you.
i asked him what was up and he said i dont know.
but i have been down that rode plenty of times..when ever me and him fighting or ingoure eachother he puts that in his profile,to make me jeoulse.(he told me it was to make me jeoulse)
soo i dont no if he is lieing about the kelly thing or serouse because i wanna die i cant live my life with out him i love him so much.
but i dont no if he makes me cut,trys to get me jeoulse
should i be friends/love him?
but if i dont talk to him i see his name on my budydlist and i see him in school and dont say anything i wanna cut.what should i do? (link)
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well it sounds to me like you are putting yourself through pain over a guy who treats you wrong. there are sooo many guys out there and it sounds to me like you dont "love" ryan but you just cant let go of him. try to find someone new...who knows...you'll probably start liking him this much after a while. but if you really truly think that this ryan guy is the perfect guy for you then you DEFENETLY need to talk to him about all of this. you need to tell him how it makes you feel when he writes those things in his profile and explain to him that if that is how he truly feels then you dont need to be with him. but STOP cutting yourself over a guy..it isnt worth it..find something else to take your anger out on besides yourself. Nobody deserves that. There are too many people in the world that would love to treat you right.
i hope this helped!
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