Hey, My name is Meagan and i am 15. I am 5 feet tall i'm a shrimp hehe. I love helping people and making them feel better in whatever I can. If you need any help please let me know!!
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ok..i know that making out with just a friend is wrong..but i still want to. Not because i want to use him, i just want to learn how to make out. I've had a boyfriend but it was only for a couple of weeks and when we kissed, it was like kissing my mother. I just want to be less nervous for the next time i have a boyfriend, and i want to actually be able to know what im doing. My friend is single now and he knows how to make out. I was just wondering if yall thought it was still wrong. If you think it's fine, how can i convince my friend to help me out? (link)
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Well, if you want to practice with him I don't think it is wrong. The only thing that might be a problem, is if after practicing he thinks of you as more then a friend. My guess, is he would be happy to help you, but he might get hurt when he finds out that you just want to be friends. I think if you just talk to him and see what he thinks, you will be fine. Good luck xoxo
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what are the signs of depression?
all answers get a 5 (if its not horribly bad..lol jk) (link)
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Well one sign of depression is you want to sleep a lot. You also can lose interest in things you like to do. Another way you can tell you have depression is if you lose your appearance. You might not care about how you look like anymore. Sometimes this may vary but some people lose weight and others might gain it. Some people tend to withdraw from their normal routine. Hope I helped you!! If you need anymore advice feel free to send something to my inbox.
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I am looking for some advice on what to do about this situation. I am in my mid 20's and have a friend who lives with her boyfriend. She pays about 80 percent of all the bills-and works two jobs to do it. The problem is taht her boyfriend is always putting her down and calling her names. There have been a cople of times where he completely explodes at her for some stupid reason and they get into a huge fight where she ends up crying. This happened the other night and she let it out that he has hit her before. After these kinds of fights I have the usual talk with her and tell her that she needs to get rid of him, that she can do better, and doesn't deserve this treatment. The thing is, the next day she will act like nothing has happened and it's never mentioned again.
The thing is, I really don't know what my place is in all of this. My mom said I should mind my own business and that it must not bother her if she hasn't left in the 3 years they have been together and my brother said I should just leave so I don't end up getting hurt. But this is my best friend and I hate to just sit by and see her put up with this. I can't believe that she can just forgive him for how he acts because I certainly can't and it just makes me seem like a jerk! What should I do? (link)
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Well hun, in these kind of situations all you really can do is be her friend. Be there for her when she needs you and listen to what she has to say. Then when she asks something like what should I do or help me, something of that nature tell her your opinion. That can not hurt anyone and your then are not butting into her personal life. She might not listen the first couple of times you tell her this, but if this happens often she will get sick of this relationship and fighting and take your advice. All you can do right now is just be there for her and help her in her times of need. Please if you need anymore advice or just would like to talk about things, feel free to send something to my inbox. Hope I helped you!!
Love meggs
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Alright. Well. I Found Out In The Beginning Of The Year That My One Friend Alicia Said Something Pretty Hurtful About Me To Our Other Friend Jasmine. Well, Alicia Said Something About My Weight && It Was Mean. I Didn't Bring It Up Then Because I Was Too Embarassed && Stuff. But, Should I Just Forget About It? Or Bring It Up Now (Not Like Get Mad, But Ask Her About It)? Or Is It Too Late && I Just Should Let It Go? I'll Rate && Give Feedback. Thanks! (link)
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Well hun, If you were hurt by the comment she made ask her about it. Try not to accuse her of it but just say someone or a few people (but don't mention who) said they heard you say this. If she says no I would trust her unless you believe it is true about what she said. Trust your heart and it will tell you what to believe and do. If you need anymore advice please feel free to send me something in my inbox!! Hope I helped you
Love meggs
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This is long...sorry...but if you read this and answer I promise to rate you a 5 and I will be so greatful! thanks in advance for reading this. I have this friend named nicole (fake name) and she has been my best friend for about 2 years. She gets really annoying and is pretty stupid, and my family doesn't like her very much. She doesn't have a lot of money and her parents are completely uninvolved in her life. My parents do everything for her and we get nothing in return. She never really does anything to show she appreciates it and I really don't like that and neither does my family. So recently she's been pretty rude to me. She ditched me twice. At lunch I sit with nicole and kelly (fake also) and 3 other girls who im kinda barely friends with but mostly I only talk to nicole and kelly. well kelly is "popular" all of a sudden to nicole but no one really likes her...and no one really likes nicole because she's so annoying. I know nicole doesn't care about popularity because if she did she wouldn't be so weird and act so nerdy. We're not popular but we're not geeks, I guess we are known as just normal group, except to the geeks we are known as popluar, so i've heard. Well nicole has just been obsessed with kelly and she blows me off or is too busy to hang out with me but not kelly. I have many friends in school, like a ton, but I usually only hang out with friends once every week or maybe even less then that. I only really hang out with nicole. But shes always so busy and always grounded so I kind of have no friends outside of school. I make an effort to hang out with other girls I know at my school but it never really works out, not that they don't like me just our plans don't really follow through. Sorry I'm writing a lot but I wanted you all to understand the background of my question. So here it is...Today nicole got mad at me and I had no idea why and so her and kelly totally ditched me at lunch and sat with someone else and I asked kelly is she mad at me she said no there was no room at the table...when there were plenty. I am so mad at nicole I seriously was about to punch her because suspension was worth punching her. She totally takes advantage of me and I keep going back to be her friend. My parents and bother think I should stop being her friend and there a feeling in me that I want to but then there's also a feeling that's not willing to give her up. The main reason I don't stop being her friend is if I do then kelly wont be my friend and I'll have no one to sit with at lunch and no one to talk to during class because most people in all my classes are popular or totally nerdy and all that stuff. But today seemed like the last straw and I don't want to be her friend but I'm afraid of what will happen. I'm hoping once I start high school I'll make new friends and totally ditch her for good, but thats about 6 months away and I don't want to go with nobody to hang out with during summer if I stop being her friend. I really love her and shes so funny and fun to be around. If I didn't love her, I would hate her and think she is the stupidest person ever, and I would never consider being her friend, if you know what I mean. I love that she doesn't care what others think, but sometimes I hate it because she is truly embarassng and since not a lot of people like her, I think that's why nobody ever calls me to hang out because they probably think I'm just like her. Basically I want to know all of your opinions about what I should do. Stay her friend, ditch her, wait a little longer, etc? Please help I have no idea what to do!!! I will rate you 5 if you answer no matter if I like your answer or not, just because you read all this. By the way, im 14 female. thanks so much! (link)
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I am having the same problem rigth now.The way i deal with it is pretend that it doesn't bother me at all. I know this shounds weird but just try it. Stick with being her friend because in life it is too short to not try and be friends with everyone. Just stick with it and show her you are stronger then she is.Try to act like it doesn't bother you i know it is hard but just think in 6 months we will be going to high school and meeting new people. If this helps and you would like to talk some more please feel free i would love to help you with this
Love meggs
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