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ok..so lately things havent been the same with me and one of my best friends..i admit i was kinda mean to her a couple times..(it killed me because thats not me at all) but she has been having mood swings ..she would be all great then she would be bitchy and annoying...is there anything i can do to restore our friendship?i just dont know what to do..any suggestions? (link)
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you just have to tell her how you feel..nd then tell her that your really sorry for being mean earlier! hopefully she'll forgive you!
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ok..if this is the second time i wrote this sry. it says i didnt ask a question and i need some advice. well i am 14 years old and there is this guy. we have been talking for about a month and a half now. he tells me he loves me and we almost had sex. everyone always asks me if we go out, i never know what to tell them so then i just asked him what were we?..were we just talkin or do we go out?..and he said we are just talking. i mean i like u but i want to talk to other girls.
should i keep talkin to him to see if things get better. or shut him outta my life? i just dont wanna get hurt. yah kno? (link)
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dont let him outta your life! he just doesnt wonna have a girlfriend..nd i can understand that..becuase sometimes its nice to be single just so you can see what different kinds of people are out there! nd you have to respect that..but have fun w/ him nd who knows..mabie not going out w/ him but still doing stuff w/ him will help you find someone knew!!!
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Well, my bestfriend and i have been best friends for 8 years *I'm going to be a junior* and we've been tennis doubles partners since 8th grade. This summer she's been slacking off and I've been working out everyday. I play tennis atleast 3x a week but i'm starting to play more, and the days i'm not playing i'm reading a book on it or running! I really want to get better and I'm working really hard. But she really isn't. She's played tennis 3x this entire summer! Sometimes she skips tennis practice for work *understandable but she's just afraid to ask to get off an hour early even though she's done it once before and they were fine with it*, but tomorrow she's missing it for a party for some girl she just met! And practice are over at 7- and i doubt the party is even started by then. My friend, who's a year younger then me but also is working hard this year has asked me to be her doubles partner for a tournament coming up. I was like heck yes! I really would rather play with her because I know we'd do really well and my other friend isn't even trying! What to do? (link)
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still stay friends w/ your best friend..but mabie she isnt intrested in tennis nd so you should stay w/ your new friend thats a year younger w/ tennis nd working out..but mabie try to help your friend find a sport that she likes nd then mabie you can run or something w/ her so that you both keep in shape!♥
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Dear amazing people,
One of my best guy friends who I just happen to like is gonig out with this girl...lets call her Shelly. I over heard her talking to her friends about wht shes going to do friday because they dont want to invite my guy friend (alden). I heard her say I can go to 1 and 2 but not 3 and I think she meant base wise. I wanna tell lden but it would break his heart and he would proably think I was lying what do I do?? (link)
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first tell Alden..if your really good friends w/ him he should believe you..but if not be like i care about you..why would i want to hurt you like that?! nd then if he still doesnt believe you just tell him i tried to tell you..nd then when he finds out((becasue hes going to in the end))you just have to comfort him nd make him feel better! but dont worry..after the 1st time..he'll always believe you again! i hope that helps! good luck!♥
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i feel terrible, because my friend told my other friend that i like him and now hes mad at me. im really mad at the friend who told him because i didnt want the one i like to know because i already knew i couldnt have him and i didnt need proof. I dont know what to do, how can i get him to stop being mad at me?
And my other friend, i thought he was mad at me but hes not, and when i said i dont have anyone left he said "you got me" and i said not really because i feel like your slipping away" and hes like, "well im not" and now i feel like hes so sweet, so i dont deserve him.
also, i feel really sick, like im holding it all in and i just wanna let it go but i can't, anyone know how i can cure this?
also, my 2 friends were talking to me, and the one said ive been in a bad mood lately, and the other one said i need a vacation to relive all the stress, but the only reason im in the bad mood is because the friend i think is so sweet keeps talking about this girl who i dont care about, because i just stopped liking him and im just getting over it, and he knows im sick of hearing it, and i think he's trying really hard now not to talk about her, but i still feel like thats all he can think about.
thanks.
love much (link)
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well..first of all if the guy you like is mad at you becasue you like him..hes a jerk..but the other guy seems really sweet! ok..i can understand why your in a bad mood though..becasue that sux for all of that to happen to you..because it happened to me! nd it fixes it all if you get your best girl friend to spend the night nd just have her spill everything thats been going on in her life..nd then you spill everything thats going on in your life! ususally your friends will try to help you out w/ everything nd try to make your life a whole lot better! good luck w/ it all nd i hope everything works out in the end!♥
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what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean? (link)
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flamer means gay..
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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all. (link)
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its ok to hang out w/ guys more! i like hanging out w/ them because they dont judge you on like what you look like nd they dont gossip nd they dont care what you wear to certain things! girl friends are good to have too though..like just because i said that dont ditch all your girl friends..because you do need them too to help you out w/ relationship problems..nd every once in a while its just always good to have a girltalk..but dont worry..hanging out w/ guys is fine!♥
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