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Ok see i went on a trip and first i asked my best friend to go wth me but there was no more room on the airplane. i kno if she did go we would have a BLAST! but then my other friend's mom talked 2 my dad and my dad invited her and the SOME HOW he found a ticket for her. i didnt kno what to say about that or even what to say to my best friend. she was a little pissed when she found out, but i hate when she is pissed at me ! i love her like a fat kid loves cake we have been though everything 2geter

I think you should sit down with your friend and explain everything to her. I think you should also talk to your dad and explain to him that you didnt invite your other friend and you wanted your best friend to go and now she is mad at you. I would also tell your best friend what you said in your question, that you hate when she gets pissed at you, and you love her like a fat kid loves cake. It would probably help to mention you'd have more fun with her than your other friend!

I hope I helped.

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okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision

I think you should talk to your friend about the situation ((in person)), and try to get her to understand where you're coming from. While you're talking to her stay chill, dont blow up on her face if she says something you dont agree with. Also, be open minded when she says things and try to see things from her point of view, because often when people like someone alot they block out the bad things in the person. I think your friend is just trying to help you but you should talk to her about it so everything ends up okay.

I hope I helped!

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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?

I think you should confront your coach about it, or leave an annonomoys(sp?) note on your coaches desk or wherever explaning the situation. If you are afraid of what the coach will say, I would try telling one of your parents about it so they can talk to the coach. Other than that I would say the only thing left to do would be to ask the girl to stop, and explain that it makes you mad even if she is just kidding. Thats all I can think of.

I hope this helps. =]

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Ok..My friend Max brought this friend with him to my house and like to where we work and everything and like my and his friend, MarC, had a connection you know like I'd known him my WHOLE life and like we were best friends or something and like at the end of the summer he has to go back home to GA and i live in NC and im worried that ill never see him again or talk to him or nething is there anything i can do to like keep in touch since it would be too far to call all the time and im not sure if he has a computer?!?

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Writing letters would be your best bet if he doesnt have a computer, but you could always ask him if he does. You can also get his number, just incase you want to call him for a while. I would spend as much time with him as you can and carry around a camera to take pictures when you guys are together. I would also make him a going away box, with a letter explaining how you're going to miss him and stuff and put it in the box, along with the pictures you take a stuff.

I hope this helps you. =]

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