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My birthday is coming up soon, i am turning 13 adn am having 30 some girls sleep over at the local sports complex..it should be a balst but there is this one friend who is nice but she ditched me and my other firneds for more popular ones we had this huge fight for 2 years now were finally made up but then last night we kinda you know butted heades again but now were cool.....do you think i should invite her to my birthday party? shes really controlling but is SO nice, but sometimes we just dont get along and its definitly not like old timeswe dont sit with eachother at lunch or anything. should i invite her?

I think that you should invite her, because she was once you friend and people who are you friends need to be treated like them.

You guys might have your differences but you will be the better person because you might invite her to your party. And since you said that she is very nice, maybe when you guys do Butt heads, you can talk to each other calmly, it's easier said than done, but try it, it might help. :)

-AJ

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Last night I was on the phone with him and we had plans to go to the movies this weekend
he said "dont be mad but i'm still going to the movies this weekend but not with you"
I didn't mind and I was okay with it but it still was rude the way he said it and just because he ditched me for someone who he doesn't even know and were best friends so it got annoying.
Well then he started being really mean about things so I said " alright I'll talk to you later I'm just going to hangup the phone"
And he said alright I'll call you in a few days maybe or tomorrow.
He went on myspace (hes kinda like confused about his sexuality so everyone thinks hes gay and hes kinda like a girl)
But he said ew your such a bitch i hate you.
And sometimes we say stuff like that to eachother but jokingly
and he deleted his myspace and made a whole new one and never added me back
i dont care about myspace but just because of that i knew something was up.
Well he won't anwser his phone and I know its right next to him.
He got on myspace again today and I messaged him asking what was wrong and he called me a fake ass bitch
I said what the hell are you talking about and he told me to stop playing dumb and to fuck off.
I messaged him again but no reply yet.
I really have no idea whats going on and why hes being like this
at this moment im confused and pissed off the same time so i dont know what to do about it.
cause he wont pick up his phone and talk to me about it either.

It could be something stupid or maybe he's just joking with you OR maybe you did something that you didn't want him to know but he found out. Whatever the cause you just need to be patient and keep reminding him that you guys are best friends and that you can tell each other anything.

Let me know it goes. :)

-AJ

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