My name is Morgan
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I heart cheerleading, basketball, and shopping to the max
My friends are my life
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Why is it that whenever a person tells another person a secret or something ...some kind of news.....and that person is close to the other person...and no matter how much you BEG them...and PLEAD NOT to tell the secret...they still ALWAYS do.
What does this mean? Should I stop telling people secret stuff?...I mean....How can I NOT?....I tell my own SISTER stuff....and she spills the beans.
How can this be stopped?
What should I do if I crave to let my emotions and secrets out? Because there's a lot building up inside of me over time. And I can't be trusting of ANYONE anymore...since like all of them (the people) basically stuck a fork up my ass. And backstabbed me with a dagger.
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Try writing all your emotions and all your "secrets" in a journal or diary of some sort. That way you can get it all out with no chance of anyone spilling. Eventually you will find that one best friend who you can tell everything too and they never spill. It just takes time to build up a very strong friendship. Hope I Helped.
~Morgan
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ok..i know that making out with just a friend is wrong..but i still want to. Not because i want to use him, i just want to learn how to make out. I've had a boyfriend but it was only for a couple of weeks and when we kissed, it was like kissing my mother. I just want to be less nervous for the next time i have a boyfriend, and i want to actually be able to know what im doing. My friend is single now and he knows how to make out. I was just wondering if yall thought it was still wrong. If you think it's fine, how can i convince my friend to help me out? (link)
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I don't think it's is wrong if you seriously just want to practice with him but if there is any chance that either of you may like one another as more than a friend then it is getting a little risky. It might end up that after your "makout session" you really like him, but he might not like you, breaking your heart. Don't get too nervous about making out, when the time comes it will happen and you will just know what to do.
Hope I Helped
((Morgan))
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heyy, im in 8th grade and middle skool is goin by fast, my life isnt do hot right now, i dont got too many friends and no matter what i do things arent gettin better. I dont want my whole life in middle skool just to be a waste. I feel like im on the outside lookin in. i just want to get some new freinds, stand out a little more and not feel like a loser when im talking to some one a little cooler than me. not be afraid to express myself. I guess its hard to be urself when the people around you dont accept you the way u are right now. So i guess im rele askin, how do i get more confidende to get more people to like me and show others the real me? (link)
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I'm in 8th grade too and you're right this last year of middle school is flying by. Try to be more outgoing and show people who you really are. The most popular kids might not like you for you but I'm sure somebody will. Don't change yourself just so you can hang out with different people, it will only make life worse. Make the most of the rest of this year because once middle school is over it's going to be a whole new world. Don't be afraid to express yourself and have the most fun you can while it last.
Hope I Helped
xoxo Mo
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Im going to a christmas/brithday party this weekend.
It is for 2 of my very good friends, im better friends with one of them over the other though.
I have NO IDEA, what to get them.
For most of my friends, i just give them money in a card but since they are such close friends i dont wanna be corny.
I only have about 45 dollars to spend on both of them, does anyone have any suggestions?
Like maybe 2 small gifts for both of them, or something good?
They are 13 and they are prep and ya know.
Theres gonna be over 65 people there, so they wont focus on my gift, but i need help.
THANKS! (link)
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If you want to make somethin personal scrapbooks/ scrapbook pages or photo albums are always a nice gift and don't cost much at all.
You could also get something that has to do with an inside joke or good time. You can get 2 t-shirts for $20 at Aeropostale.
I Hope I Helped
~Morgan
P.S. Have a good time at the party
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there is this problem.... i am to shy to talk to guys i mean not cuz i like them just to make friends idk if it is because i'm so used to girls or what but it is hard.i mean i can talk to them on the internet or on the phone but not in person. what is the Problem here? (link)
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You dont have any problem...here are some tips to help you open up to the guys in person:
-Find one that you know the most and try talking to him and hanging out with him, after a while you will get to know his friends too
-Don't worry abotu being anything but yourself
-Join big groups when they're talking and stuff so that you are not the only girl
Hope I Helped
xoxo Morgan
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well my friend said that i've changed. she said that i NEVER talk anymore and stuff like that. now i sort of believe her, but i kind of dont. i know i've been quiter, but thats because im not with all my friends that im very comforable with. see i have a three of groups of friends, "the cools","the not so cool", and "the ones i dont see anymore that much". ive benn hanging out with the "not so cool" and latly i havnt been comunicating with them very good. for example ive been disagreeing with them and trying to advoyed my friend who said i've changed. and honestly i have no idea why thats been happening. i know this might sound stupid and all but do you have any idea of what i should do?
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Is there something going on in your life that has made you not want to talk anymore or hang out with your friends?
That could be the reason why everything is saying you changed, your friend just cares about you and she wants to make sure you are okay.
If there isn't any reason for this then ask your friend why she thinks you have changed and what you can do to fix it. If she gives you ways to change that are possible try it! Start hanging out more and getting more involved and before you know it, I'm sure you and your frineds will be right on track. Remember: You're friend wouldn't just tell you that you've changed if she hasn't noticed anything different.
I Hope I helped
If you need any more help, IM me, or leave it in my inbox.
~Morgan~
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so i started to like my friend at the end of last year and it hasnt changed sence. about a mounth ago he found out i liked him and i was all worried that every thing was going to change. and yet to my suprise it didnt just that we dont talk that much anymore. he doesnt notise me that much in the hall way either. he also likes this girl at school but what i have heard is that he doesnt anymore, and i really like him, u kno? how can i make him notise me more and mabey even like me?
please help me Morgan! (link)
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Try to talk to him more and spend more time with him. Don't try to change yourself. that is the worst thing to do. Be yourself around him and show him what a truely great person you can be. Hang out with his friends and don't be all
"goo goo gah gah" over him all the time. The best thing you can do is to just be yourself and try talking to him. Good Luck, I hope I helped!
If you need anymore help just IM me or send something to my inbox.
-Morgan
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I have this friend, well she is my best friend, we are both 15. We have so many good times together, but there is something about her i can't stand. She gets so much attention, and she is SO full of herself. She is the most popular girl at our school, but 80% of the people there hate her. She thinks she is so perfect, but the thing is she is not. I always tell her she is fine just the way she is, but the thing is, she needs a major attitude adjustment, I wish there was some way for me to tell her, but i just dont know what to do.. (link)
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Try sitting her down and talking to her nicely. Don't say something like "you need a najor attitude adjustment, everyone really hates you."
Tell her why it hurts you and show her some of the things she does. It's possible that she doesn't even notice she is doing these things. Maybe she lacks self confidence so pretending she thinks she is perfect is the only way to keep her self confidence up. The best thing you can do is talk to her. I Hope everything works out.
~Morgan
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WEll i like this girl, but whenever i'm around her i dont know what to say. i dont know what to talk about. i dont know what kind of things will make her laugh and things that she'll get offended by.
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Talk about common interests, things going on at school and around town, ask questions, anything that will spark conversation. Be yourself and don't try to hold back on what you say too much or the girl will think you're a goody goody or something like that. As for not wanting to offend her just don't say anything really rude and you'll be covered. Most girls don't get offended that easily.
Good luck
`morgan
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i like this girl now and we've been frends for a while and now we're really good friends and have almost all classes together. i'm thinking about asking her out, but i dont wanna have something happen and then everything is all awkward afterwards and we're not as close anymore. i really like her, but at the same time i wanna keep ur friendship.
Please help morgan (link)
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If you are really close try talking to her about it..ask her if she thinks it would be akward or ruin the friendship. If it is way too akward to talk to her then try getting one of your friends to just be like have you ever thought about going out with--- and get her opinion. Who know, maybe she likes you too. If you can't do either of those things then just try goign out and if things get akward, break up before it ruins the friendship.
I Hope I Helped and if you need anymore help IM me!
xoxo Morgan
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I wanted to send an e-mail to one of my best friends have always been there for me no matter what and that I can tell anything to and let her know how much I appreciate her. I've been best friends with her since third grade and I am now in seventh. I was going to put all of our good times in the e-mail, but I don't know what else to put. Does anyone know of something else that I can put in the e-mail? (link)
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Just spill your heart out in the e-mail! Tell her how much she means to you and everything you can also include all the good times you have had and memories. Think of it as a letter, put all your feelings into it and she will be able to tell how much you care.
Hope I HElped
*Morgan~
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i found out that one of my friends likes me and now she thinks everythings gonna change between us but i know it wont. the problem is that i like someone else and dont really like her all that much. i really just want to stay fiends but she really things are gonna change between us when we go back to scholl after the weekend.
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My best advice is to try to keep things as normal as possible when you go back to school.
If she is making things akward by being shy around you or something then talk to her after school or something. Just say, "look, I know you like me but I don't want to loose the great friendship and I promise everyhing will still be the same. If you don't like her, don't pretend to just keep everything like it was before.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan~
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this year i want to be able to meet more friends and especially friends that are girls. last year i thought that i was being stupid or suntin in front of them but this year i wanna become better friends with more girls.
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Just try talking to them and don't try to be anything but yourself.
Watch what you say and don't say anything immature or anything that would offend them but don't be too much of a goody goody.
Have fun and enjoy the year and you'll make friends..don't worry.
HOPE I HELPED
((morgan))
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Alright, well the school year is coming up soon, and I really want to be extra social this year. I don't mean like popular, I don't care about that, but last year I hung out with friends, but most of my weekends were spent at home, and this year I want to hang out with more people and be at home less. I especially want more guy friends. I have like, two. And I see all these girls with all these guys friends and I always wonder how they became friends with them. Help? (link)
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Just be yourself and talk to them whe they're around. Make sure you are not shy around the guys and just act like you would around your firends when they're around. The more you hang out the closer you will become.
HOPE I HELPED
~MORGAN
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My best friend, Hillary, all the sudden likes Mike. They are now going out, Mike is a bad kid. No joke, he's only 12, [shes thirteen] and he's already had sex with another girl, cheated on 3 of his girlfriends, he smokes, drinks, and is on drugs. Hillary knows all this, but doesn't care. I can't pull her away from him, and even since they started going out, its like, shes trying to ignore me, ditch me, and just forget about me. I've tried calling her, IMing her, talking to her, but she won't listen, I don't want anything bad to happen to her, what should I do? x3 (link)
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Tell Someone you trust, they can help you. If she won't talk to you their is a chance that she is getting into these bad habits so you need to get her help before somehting goes seriously wrong. Keep trying to talk to her, don't give up. I hope everything works out!
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My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.
She seems happy about it.
I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.
She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.
She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.
She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.
I don't know what to do. (link)
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Don't let her kill herself! You know about it and if you let it happen you will have to live with it for your whole life. Tell her that she isn't only hurting herself.. she is hurting you and probably other people as well. Next Friday don't let her out of your sight if you have to go over her house and I mean it's a friday you can sleepover right? You need to tell a trustworthy adult immedietly.. do it soon or you will have to live with knowing you could have saved your friend but didn't for life.
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Im goig to a new school next year with my best friend, she is great and ive known her forever, but im a fraid that if i hang out w/ her alot that, i wont make alot of new friends. plz help!!! (link)
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Have your BFF introduce you to her friends.. before long they will probably become your friends too. If your freinds gets to clingy remind her that you want to meet new people. Just be yourself and I'm sure people will come talk to you. I hope everything works out.
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