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okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more?? (link)
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Ok so if you just call this guy randomly and say that you like him, he's going to think your just a kid with some school girl crush. Be more realistic about it.Ask him out for coffee, or lunch. Nothing too date-like seeing how it is sort of out of the blue.Make it causual and comfortable. We all know guys are a little slow but EVENTUALLY he will catch on.
Lauren
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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me. (link)
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Well first oh all, judging her like this isn't really the friend-like thing to do.
Accept her for who she is. Her "weirdness" is just part of her personality that a true friend should love.
Lauren
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OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time. (link)
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I think the letter thing is an excellent idea. A couple of weeks ago I had a friend commit suicide.So I wrote a letter to his little sister and his older brother. In the letter I basically showed my undying love for them as well as my contiuous presence. Just let him know you'll always be there. Constantly by his side, day or night, even at 3 in the morning( trust me it may get to that)It will mean bunches to him. GOOD LUCK!!!
Lauren
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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me? (link)
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Alright doll here's my suggestion. PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE! Start talking to these boys you sit by, join in on the conversation. Truly show your personality. Just because you don't usually talk to them doesn't mean you can't.Open up and show them who you are. No one can deny the confidence of a person who is willing to talk to people they don't know. Confidence reflects personality. Trust me, show them yours and you'll have friends in no time!
Lauren
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