Im a GREAT ADVISOR. ... Ask me anything.. I have a souloution for ANYTHING. go ahead go ask.. I HAVE GREAT LOVE LIFE :) q+A. And i wont laugh. i stay up real late so ask ashley and i will be there 2 ANSWR you!!!! look 4-ward to advicening
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I've been friends with this girl since the beginning of 8th grade - we're in 9th now. She's friends with most of the same people as me and we're pretty close. Last year she did what she wanted to do and didn't really care what others thought. Now, she's started copying my sayings, my interests, all of my music, my books, absolutely EVERYTHING. And also, one of our other friends got her hair cut short a bit ago and the copying girl just went out and chopped all of her hair off too. This annoyed both me and the girl who got her hair chopped off first.
I've tried everything - ignoring it, not talking about my interests, asking people for advice - but nothing works. I need to make her realize that she needs her own identity - not mine and everyone else's. Is there a way to confront her non-threateningly? What should I do? (link)
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WELL i have someone just like this. yes, you need to confront her. Tell her in a nice way like "i really have noticed you have been copying me of what i do, say etc, thank you, but stop PLEASE. i said thank you in there because she ADMIRES you, not in gross way. just how you look and act. she wants to be JUST LIKE YOU. yes yes , that can be annoying. all u can do is confront.
ash
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my best friend since auguest is a grade lower than me. well obviously she knew my crush (in my grade) because i would obsess over him every day. well she went out with my freind in my grade. they broke up. but then today, i head that she was going out with my crush and its true!! im so mad at her! how LOW is that?!!! shes like "i thought you didnt like him anymore" im like "COME ON thats why i talk about him and obsess over him every day!!???!!!! give me a effin break!" so i was a crying during school. i HATE THIS. she broke up with him but im NEVER going to forgive her for this!!!
what do i do? thanks 4 reading (link)
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well we all have relationship probs. but this one is LOW. what do you think you should do? not be friends with her? have you talked to him or her lately? You can always CRUSH but if he's taken then you can't help that. And thats weired cause a story happened to me almost exactly like that... and i got over it. The girl was my friend. And the guy i crushed..ooo she liked him too much! i was mad .. they kissed and everythng we were in 4 th grade! but you know what i did...i got over it... . and he asked me out last year[finally].
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I have this friend and she is so gorgeous. So many guys like her and she is always talking about how they stare at her and how so many people call her beautiful. I try to be nice, but i can't help it, i am so jealus of her. Sometimes i'll be really mean to her but i dont mean to be and i feel so bad. She's really nice to me, but but whenever i bring up a topic about myself, she'll change the subject and talk about a guy liking her. Is there any way i can stop being jealus of her and get her to listen to me? thanks in advance. (link)
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Well i think that everyone is gorgeous even you. . just except yourself the way you are. The next time you see her compliment her or say something nice, You'll feel good about youself. You could go shopping for styles like her or JUST BE YOURSELf ....or if you like doing what you're doing then do it! thats great .... good luck,..
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my name is ash
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