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I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I stopped talking to him cause he was bad news and all. I don't know what to do with her. Please help me.
~confused chica~

dear confused chica:
ive been through something similar to this. i would talk to this girl and be like hey you know what im trusting you with information to stay between you and me if you cant handle that than my information is going elsewhere. as for your ex b/f tell him that he needs to understand that you guys are not together anymore so you have the ability to do what you want to do. but still tell him that hes a nice guy and that you guys can still be friends.
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my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.

p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons

if your friend is going out with the guy you like she is not really your friend. and your best friend would be able to like him but keep it on the down low b/c she IS after all your best friend. you dont have to win over anybody. jus find some one new.
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wow, I don't really know what category to put this under, so I guess it works under friendship.. kinda. Anyway, I started cutting, I don't know why but I did. I don't want to, but it's really addicting.. 0.o so it's hard for me to stop. Only on of my friends knows and I just met him and I like him alot.. he cuts to, so I feel conferdable talking to him about this.. he doesn't do it so much anymore but I wonder if he is worried about me, I know my step brother is.. he knows to. Well he doesn't really know he just thinks I do it and he knows that I have a BiG possibatly of doing it.
When I look at my scares.. I cry, and I think 'is this really who I am?? is this really me??' cause I don't seem like this kinda girl who would do this.. I am real caring and nice and funny.. so I don't get it.. how do I stop.. do you have anything to tell me about what I wrote? just anything, please.. I wana stop.
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hi. this one is easy because i just stopped about a week ago. i went to a therapist and asked what i could do to stop. she said to wear a rubberband around your wrist. every time you feel like cutting u pull back on the rubber band and let go. cutting relieves your pain, stress, depression...it "hurts". the rubberband thing hurts but it doesnt leave scars. it may sound weird but its true and its helped me alot. cutting can be fatal so you might want to stop now. i hope you didnt use something like old scissors because they can be infected. i hope i helped and good luck!

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