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my quote-- "The past is the past and there is nothing i can change, The only thing i can do is help you with the future" I hope my advice helps you. In the future i want to become a Psychiatrist. My answers might not always be 100% correct but i try my best. && i would help anyone i could possibly help before i would even think of helping myself.
My name is Amy and iam 14, But i am very wise for my age. Just because im 14 does not mean i can not give good advise. I am COMPLETLY honest and if i think your acting like an idiot im going to say it whether you want her hear it or not. i dont care what people think about me, i have been though to much to. I dont beleive in lying to friends or people who need help && i ALWAYS speak my mind.
I have suffered through Depression, stress, and i keep all my feeling a secret so know one will find out or know im not stong or brave. I am always willing to help someone who feels the same. I've have/had mental breakdowns, suicidal moments, family problem, friend problem, & boy friend problems. im pretty sure that i am bipolar and ADD or ADHD, but i am afriad to tell me parents because i know they will not believe me. I am also all my friends, both guys and girls- and for ages 9-50, personal Psychiatrist so i know it all. I don't like stupid Drama and i am for the most part used to it, but I that how my life is. I LOVE reading about mental illnesses, i know its kind of odd- but thats me. && i love getting to look up and learn about something NEW!
If you have any thing you would like to talk to me about you can IM me. my Aim is xxTimesxChange or you can e-mail me at bballmonkey1993@yahoo.com
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What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian?!?!?!?!
thanks in advance!
i just found out that my best friend is bi. Yeah it is kind of weird at first, but just because it is a little different does not mean it should ruin your friendship. You have to tell your friend straight out that you are obviously not a lesbian and you have no plans of becoming one and going out. You should suport her in her decision, its not really her decision its just who she is and she cant exactly change that. It not something you wake up in the morning and say 'well today i think im going to to be a lesbian', its probaly something that has been bothering her for a while. Its not easy being gay/lesbian in todays society. People make fun of them and can really do some hurtful things. Just because your best friend is attaracted to the same sex does not mean that you two can not be close or still be friends. But you are going to have to get used to the fact that when you are togeather that you may be cheakin gout guys, and she may be cheaking out girls. Life is not exactly going to be the same for her, it is going to get a little harder. she is going to need your love an support.
Hope this helped
-amy
I find myself sitting at home waiting for my three friends to come over while everyone else is at the movies. No joke like EVERYONE is going to the movies tonight. I am the "leader" of the group and all I want to do is have fun. It's like my main goal in life is to have fun. I want to have a bunch of friends.. and more guy friends (I have some but just a few) How can I get more friends and not find myself sitting at home on friday nights?
be come more social.
Talk to people and get to know them
Try not to be shy and just randomly talk to people. Its the only way to meet new people.
my boyfriend is such a jerk. i saw him kissing another girl. but hes soo sweet and he makes me laugh. i just cant get over this one thing. what do i do? forgive him or do i end it??
well even tough you saw him kissing her you should talk to him about his feeling toawrd her and explain that you are upset,and why, and maybe you guys will get through it.you need to have him explain why this happend and if this is ever going to happen in the future.you need to try to do yo ur best to be understanding,and not get angry at him. if you honestly feel that you can't trust him around other girls than maybe the realtionship was not meant to be.The man thing that holds the realtionship together is trust,and if you can't trust him and you feel he will contine to do this then maybe he doesnt honestly care,and you will have to think it over about staying with him.
hope this helped
MONKEY
hey amanda! its hannah and man you are amazingly amazing
thanks soo much
but this is my friend AMYs advice comlum aka MONKEY we apprecate the love but if you really havbe any questions feel free to ask Amy aka MONKEY any time and Amanda aka PUP says she loves you even more thaN YOU EVEN NO