I am the Turc, formally known as Kristin. I helped start this website, what seems like many years ago! Woo!
I'm a college sophomore, music ed major (all of the academics-relationship-extracurriculars-applying to college-switching your major-stuff), a musician, and a hardcore music fanatic. I am very quirky. I love Disney movies. I love giving advice. I also love reading, writing, movies, music, computers, piano, etc etc. I'm very honest, up front, and even blunt about some things. I'm pretty opinionated, but I know when to shut up. I like playing football and watching PSU football, as well as basketball, volleyball, and baseball in general. I know lots of stuff and like sharing my knowledge, and I tutor, so I'm all for the helping people with homework thing. :)
Go ahead and ask me questions... I'll do my best!
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Is it possible to love a boy who failed kindergarden? I LOVE a boy who failed kindergaden. I just found out. He is soooo cute, though. He's my age and evything. I do't know what to do. it isn't that I don't like him and it isn't because I'm afraid my friends will tease me. I go out with him now. He moved and now he goes to my school again. The only problem is... when do I get to see him? PLEASE HELP! THANKS,
coolgirl57 (link)
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It's possible that he didn't fail kindergarten, he could have just been held back for his age, attendance, or another untimely reason. People get held back in grade school for weird things, especially in the earlier years. If you like him so much, you shouldn't worry about what your friends think.
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Me & my BFF really wanna pierce our bellybuttons. She's got hers done already, but I can't get mine thru! Any tips?? (link)
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Uhm, get it done professionally? Instead of risking infection and disease by doing it yourself?
Yeah, that would work.
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All my best friend talks about is her computer! Me & my other friends will talk about what we did over the weekend, and "Ellie" will just talk about gigabites, megabites, and that sort of stuff. We don't understand that sorta stuff at all! How can we get her to talk about normal people stuff, like guys, parties, or even her pets?! (link)
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Either learn a bit about what she's interested in, or you're going to lose her. Be happy she's found a passion.
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Ok well i used to be the girl who wrote the best peoms ever.Then bout a year ago my other friend started writeing her peotry and totally just critisizing mine and then my other friend started writing it oo and then my friend said whoa is she tryin to take m y place and then said well i took urs i mean my poetry is better well she didnt say that but implied it ever since then i have felt so empty b-cz peotry is the only thing i had why is she doing this what can i do to help and y do i feel like this? (link)
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Ignore her and do your own thing. If it makes you happy, there's no reason for her to belittle you this way. Write your poetry your way and when you're famous someday you can ignore her when she come begging at your feet.
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HAPPY TURKEY DAY!!! (link)
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No, no, no.... it's TURCY day!
It's my day! *dances around*
But happy Turcy day to you anyway!
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i hope i put this in the right category... anyhoo, here's my situation...
i know this guy (we're friends, but not close) and i THINK he 'likes' my friend, but i'm not sure. he's pretty friendly with everyone, and it may just be me being paranoid, but i think he's being kinda flirty with her. AND i think she's being that way back to him. now my friend has never been out with anyone before but i think they both 'like' each other, and i'm not sure i like what's happeneing. how do you tell if a guy really likes someone or if that's just their nature? what does everyone think? what would you do if you were in my shoes? (link)
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It's nice of you to be so worried about your friends, but quit obsessing over the could-be relationship and let them take their own course. It sounds like you may have answered your own question when you said "he's pretty friendly with everyone, and I may be being overly paranoid BUT..." If he's "friendly" with everyone, it's probably just his nature. However, if your friends are liking each other, let them figure it out... it's not your job :)
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Last week our school had a dance. I went and we all had fun, just hanging out, talking, laughing, and then we decided to dance. At first we were just dancing, but then the slow songs came on. All my friends have boyfreinds/girlfreinds, and my freind, whom we will call bob, and I were just standing there. We are very good friends,he asked me to dance, so I said sure, why not? He thought we were dancing as friends, I thought so too. We are just friends. There is this girl though, and now she is totally pissed off at us for dancing. When she's talking to a group, and I try and say something, she'll just say: Nobody cares, Hawley. I just give her a dirty look and start talking, I don't care what she says. BUt she's really being a total bitch to *Bob* and I, and it's pissing me off. How the hell do I get her off my case when she won't even listen to us? (link)
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Explain to her one-on-one that you and Bob are just friends. Dancing is a non-committal thing. She needs to understand that. Ask her if she's ever danced with her dad, that sort of thing.
That said, I suspect she has a crush on Bob, since she's all mad at you. I tell you to talk to her one-on-one because in a group setting, she'll be more defensive about it.
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A friend of mine is getting married in a few months, and all she talks about is her freaking wedding. She's so annoying I just want to smack her. Some of our other friends feel the same way, others are all into this wanting to help plan and decorate and buy pretty white crap that I can't get excited about at all, because I'm just not a pretty white crap kinda girl.
She used to be so cool and normal, we'd talk about what was going on in the world, fun weekend activities, etc. Now she's wedding 24/7. What's wrong with her? How do I shake her out of cinderella land and get my friend back? (link)
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Hopefully, this is a once in a lifetime thing for your friend. This will be the only time in her life she'll get to be excited about the tiniest details of the "best day of her life"-- so let her be excited. Let her have her fun until the wedding, and then I can almost guarantee that the "pretty white crap" stuff will end. Let it take its course, and try to understand, since you claim to be such a good friend. After the wedding everything will be back to normal.
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my worst enemy kathryn is talking shit about me(well she always does) , what would be a nice way to tell her she is the essence of evil and i would perferably not talk to her eever again?
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Ignore her.
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