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♥ ♥ Well my name is Alexis. I'm 14 and I live in Florida. I have alot of friends and many of them ask me for advice, so i decided to become part of the advicenators community. lol.... anyways.... i love watching and playing sports.~~~GUYS, are a number one priority for me!!! truness! lol. I've come accross alot of problems and i think i have made my way through them pretty well. now im out to help others... so ask me a question! ♥ ♥

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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=(

you friend seems to be a lil confused if she isnt listening to her best friend and would rather be with a guy who threatens to seriously kill you... you need to tell her that you cant be her friend if she is going to be with this guy, she needs yo make a decision between you or him... if it is getting to the point where its threatening your life you can tell a Police Officer at your school... hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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The other day me and my mom went to her best friends house, they have known each other since before i was born. She has two step-sons, one is 15 the other is 16. I have known them forever, and done a lot with them over the years but they live with their mom who lives an hour away from their dad and step-moms house and they are hardly ever at their dads house anymore so i hardly ever see them.....anyway, the other day they were there and we hung out while my mom and their step-mom talked while we went down to the basement and the 16 year old, we will call him Sam, anyway sam and i sat together on the couch and i have had a crush on him for so long, and we were watching tv and he laid on my shoulder and started playing with my hand and interlocking our fingers and everything and i had holes in my jeans and he started playing with them and he laid on my lap and watched tv and kept playing with my hand and i think he tried to kiss me but i didnt try to kiss him because i didnt know....so my question is, i dont have his number but i have his brothers which i an also good friends with and do you think if i call and ask his brother for his number it would be stupid and sound desprite....i dont know if i want to do it but i keep thinking about him...and yes my mom and his step-mom are good friends and see each other a lot but we dont see each other a lot...like the last time i saw them before that was about 6 months ago...i know i will see them again but i just dont know when...do u think i should call his brother and ask for his number...but sam knows his brother has my number but he hasnt tried to call me or anything so do you think i should wait till he maybe calls or wait till i see him again....i dont know...i know i sound like a little kid but i have had a crush on him since i was little....please help...thanks!!!

i think that you need to call and ask his brother for the number... take a risk plus your mom and his mom are friends and im sure that if you guys started hanging out more your parents would be happy... i dont see a problem in starting a relationship with this guy and it seems like he wants to be with you too... or he like to flirt lol hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?

i think that having fun is a real key to a friendship... but being truthful and serious is a key too... take a good look at the situation and decide if you need to be having fun or if you need a sincere friend... explain to them whats up... hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!

accept the gift, but accept in in a "wow thanx" way not in a "omg thank you we should hang out sometime". say something like "you didnt have to get me anything"
hope i helped
xoxo

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