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Hi! I'm Tiffany and I am a 19 year old college student in Florida. I have had an older accounton advicenators before, and was actually a moderator, but I forgot the password. :(
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Here's the thing. My friend is 13, her boyfriend is 18 (Don;t judge they were cute together -plus I know this is wrong-) And my friend's parents were ok with her going out with this dude, as long as nothing physical happened. Well, she had sex with him and texted me telling me all about it(as she does) and her dad read out Outbox messages on her phone and found out. So, now she is GROUNDED, she is forbidden to see her boyfriend ever again, I think they are moving her to another school so they can't be together there. She's not allowed out of the house, she's not allowed the internet... she just has to sit at home and do nothing. I want to see her, her parents wont let me talk to her on the phone because they think I'm just going to put her boyfriend on the phone.
I'm also friends with her boyfriend. They are both so heartbroken about this, and the boyfriend wants to leave her, just until she's a little older, he knows that the age difference is too much right now, so her wants to wait for her... but he can't even tell her it's over.
I feel so bad for my friends and I want them to be happy, but I don't know if my friend's parents will let her out of the house ever again. ):
What do I do? I just want to talk to my friend. How can I convince her parents to let me see her for at least five minuets???
PLEASE HELP. (link)
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This is a sad situation that I would hate to be in. The advice I have for you is that, you may want to stay out of it before her parents put you completely out of the picture too. It is their relationship anyway and he is old enough to realize that the matter needs to be handled in a mature civil way. I guess the only time you have to talk to her is at school, any other way is devious and could get her into more trouble.
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