Well for starters my name is Alex. I am a Freshman at ACSHS. i play softball! I love all of my friends, i'm obbsessed with lip gloss and purses. Dooney and Burke especially! I would do anything to meet Paris Hilton. I listen to my music really loud. I love to travel. and meet new people. I always try to help people in any way i can. so just ask away! If you're having problems with your family i'm TOTALLy here to help you. And i think i give pretty good advice when it comes to that kinda stuff, cause i've prolly been there before. My parents are divorced. i have step parents also. my step mom is totally two faced! i have one real brother. one step brother. one half brother and one half sister. so when it comes to siblings, i've prolly been down that road too! So don't be afraid to ask me questions. and i'll give you the most helpfully answer i can think of!
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I have a friend who says I am her "best friend". Well, lately she hasn't been inviting me places. Like, she is always with other people. I have caught on that everytime she invites me out her other friends are busy. Do you think I am her second choice or maybe I am just overreacting? I have talked to her about it but she makes excuses.
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i've gone through this a couple times! have you asked her to do things lately? if not.. try to do so... in some ways you may be overreacting, but in other ways, i don't think you are, you're just worried that you're loosing out on a relationship and loosing a friend! you also have to know,, that you can't be her only friend! and she can't be your only friend! i don't know that i helped that much, but i tried! if you need anything, leave one i my inbox! laterrr*
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Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?
Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long. (link)
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If this girl was REALLY your true friend. She wouldn't do stuff like this to you! And make you look/feel stupid. I wouldn't suggest stop being friends with her just yet. I would talk to her about how you think some of the actions she takes charge of while around you are annoying, embarrassing, unfair, and wrong. If talking to her doesn't change the way she treats you. Then i would just tell her. "You know what, i've tried to fix the problems between us, But it's just really not working out. I don't think we should be friends any more".. I wouldn't call that mean. and truthfully i wouldn't worry about being 'nice' about breaking the relationship. Just think about all of the mean things she has done to you! Hope i helped.. and GOOD LUCK!!! =)
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I have a friend and we used to be best friends, but now i dont want to hang out with her or anything because i've noticed that shes always making fun of me and trying to make me look bad so i dont want to hang out wit her but she always is making plans that include ME.
so how can i tell her that i dont want to hang out with her without hurting her feelings? (link)
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Just stay calm when you talk to her. Don't scream and yell like most people would come off to do. And i understand you you don't want to hurt her feelings. But you're breaking a relationship, it's not gunna be that easy, because obviously she still cares for you, and wants to hang out with you! You could try Telling her the problems between you and her. and then just say that you don't think that you shouldn't be friends anymore. OR you can try to work out the problems between each other, and talk to each other about what bothers each of you. Because there are prolly some things that you do that make her mad. Just try to work out the problems. Hope i helped =/
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