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Hi, My real name is Christian. I'm 15 going on sixteen in march. I have problems like anyone else here which is why I try to help you guys. Because I know that like me all you guys need is some advice hence the site lol:]. You can contact me on my AIM or MSN just specify yourself don't say "OH I'm that guy you helped out.", Like if your name is John say "I'm John.", :D. I don't expect to make friends out of this but if you want to be friends I'll give you my Myspace. Anyways...Goodbye.
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My best friend has been kicked out of her apartment twice now coz she has been caught with her roommates stuff. I just found out a while ago and I was trying to contact her but her cell is off and she is not responding to my e-mails. I'm really worried about her, she is suffering some family problem and I suspect she has an OCD. Her boyfriend is no help either. He just won't talk to us and her parents seems not to care. (link)
Well the best thing you can do is stay calm, I know that sounds stupid considering the situation, but I'm pretty sure you are thinking about her being hurt, which might not be the case. But her boyfriend not talking to you guys does seem a bit suspicious. Just keep trying her cell, and if all else fails call 9-1-1.


My best friend is a sweetheart. I mean, he's the nicest person ever in the world. He waits for me in classes, he carries my stuff, he treats me anything I want, he refuses to sleep unless if I sleep [like when its really late], he drives to pick me up sometimes after my afterschool activities to treat me ice cream, and many more. I always tell him "no matter how many thank yous I say, it'll never be enough for your kindness is beyond" however, he's very cold towards others. He's just the type who's mean on the surface but really sweet inside.
Few weeks ago, one of our closest friends talked to me because she was concerned bout my friendship, she said, "I doubt that he sees this friendship as just friendship" and afterwards, many people start coming up to me to tell me the same thing. I don't know what to do, whom to listen to, or what to say. A part of me thinks it's true that he's a bit too much for a best friend, and a part of me believes that he might have feelings for me, yet another part of me refuses to acknowledge that because I do not want to ruin our good friendship... but my friends get mad at me if I do not believe in them,, and well, it's getting really awkward now between me and my best friend because he feels some tension built between us due to my weird behavior around him lately... (link)
It does sound like he has feelings for you. And you shouldn't ruin a friendship just because they like you. I know it sounds weird but just talk to him about it. He does care about you a lot and you shouldn't ruin it. So just talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't like you. You never know until you ask him.




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