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hey this is nikki okay my best friend is mad at me and i dont know why she wont talk to me or look at me and i dont know what i did to make her mad. well anyways she was all happy yesterday at school but when she got back from the feild trip i called her and i was talking to her and she said who is this and i said nikki she goes what i aked her what was the matter and she said nothing and then she was like call me back later so i fell asleep anyways she got on the bus and was pissed for some reason i tried to talk to her but she kept telling me that nothing was wrong with her so i dont know what to do. i mean how can i get her to talk to me she wont even look at me or anything can you plz help

do the same to her...talk to other ppl
she will end up talking to you b.c she is jelous or because she relized it was a stupid reason

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my best friend is pregnet. i dont know what to do. i know she wants to keep it but she hasnt even told her boyfriend and she wasnt going to tell me but i found the strip in her room. I'm afraid that she wont be able to handle it and that her parents will be mad if they find out I've known this girl since i was 7 and were 14 now and she is so young that her parents would probly just kick her out. i dont want this to happen to her and i dont know if i should tell anyone she's not ready to have a baby at all and she cant get enough courige to go tell somebody about it so now im realy worried about what will happen if she doesnt tell. should i just go ahead and tell ppl and make things easy or should i just let her do it her way?

ask her...tell her you know and give her any support she needs

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Okay there was this one kid that said he liked me. he'd alwyas say he loves me too, but i thought he had a girlfriend.. One day at my friend's house he tried to kiss me and i said no i cant do this.. he asked why and i said because your going out with amy..he said, no im not dont worry about it. About a month later his Girlfriend found out about what happened and he told her that I CAME ONTO HIM! She wants to beat me up for something i did not do and she thinks that I am lying about all this.. what can i doo!?

well sit down and tell her everything or tell her to knock the sh*t out of him..any witnessess might help

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ok...one of my BEST friends is very flirty! I'm not sure why...but she is! It seems like all she wants to do is flirt and be ually active with guys! I havn't been hanging out with her as much because of this...If she happens to get pregnant or any type of thing, I don't want to be apart of it! She always wonders why I don't hang out with her as much and I tell her...but she always denies doing the things she does. How can i help her realize that i don't want her getting hurt and hang out with her more...WITHOUT her getting upset with me?!?!?!??!?!

Thanks a bunch!
-*Marissa*-

tell her

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Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get on top of me. And then, long after we dried off, she had wet spots on her boobs. So disgusting. On the bus ride home, I'm like, trying to sleep, and every time I look, she's watching me. Then later, I woke up later that night and her butt was pressed against mine and if I'm not mistaken, it was moving up and down. Then on the monorail, she has all this room, but is like, on top of me. So I move over, and she moves closer, and that kept happening. Just a lot of that kind of stuff. So me and my new friends Kelly and Molly and my other friend Amber ditched her at Magic Kingdom, and yeah, we're not talking (not that I care). But now, I'm just really freaked out. I told my friends, and we thought about it for awhile, and a lot of stuff she told us before was all starting to make sense and we really think she's bi or a lesbian. So what should I do? I don't really want to be her friend anymore, and I'm just really freaked out. I could probably say more, but I don't want this to be too long, so if you want more details, IM me on x HappyBunni16 x. Sorry so long, but I'm really scared.
P.S. I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends.

well..tell her that its freaking you out..i mean if she knows and cares maybe she will stop..
other than that i cant reli help you

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