I have always been the one that my friends came to for advice or just to have a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on. To this day I give my advice to those who are in need and I love it.
I am a stay at home mother of 3 boys. I also work from home. My husband is in the Army and I also used to be in the Army. I have so much experience in my life that I feel I can use to help others in times of need.
I have, from the time I was very little, always been a people person. I have always looked for ways to help those in need and I always found that giving my advice seemed to help the most.
Check back later for some testimonials from my friends, they will be posted within the next few days. I hope to get some questions from you all and be able to pass on my experience to you to help you get through the problems that are hard to solve on your own.
Gender: Female
Location: Fort Bragg, North Carolina
Occupation: Stay at home mom and ChaCha.com independant contractor
Age: 27
Member Since: October 24, 2008
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Well, if you read my other questions, you know me and my "bestfriend" both 'like' the same guy, although i don't think she ilkes him. .. but whatever.
So now she's being a complete witch(if you know what i mean) to me. And she doesn't think so. But i know so, everyone says she treats me bad, but she thinks opposite, that I treat her bad.
We've been bestfriends since second grade, and I don't want that to end. But i don't know if i can handle how rude and witchy* she's been to me. I tell her about it, but all she does is 'backfire' it, and say it back to me. HELP! What should i do ? :/ (link)
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First of all let me say I know how you feel. I've lost friends over boys and it's the stupidest reason to lose a friend. Don't let a guy come between that kind of relationship. However, if it has and she is refusing to talk to you or doesn't see it your way then I will offer you this advice. SPACE! Sometimes people need space and a lot of it to begin to think clearly. If you continue to bombard her with all this stuff she won't have the time she needs to cool off and get it together, put things into perspective. I'm sure over time she will see that this guy isn't worth losing you over. Good luck =)
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