Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?
It was very rude of her to do that. You should sit down with her and talk to her about thngs like that and any thing else that she does that is bothering you. If you don't tell her how you feel about the way she is acting then she is has no reason to try to change when she is around you or change at all.
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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?
If your friends are gettin like that beacasue of the whole money thing it is because they are jealous that they are not able to have the same things as you. Just be yourself because that is all you can do. Friends are going to come and go but the ones that truly care about you and are there for you no matter what will shine through. Use this as a time to see who your real friends are and make sure you keep them around. It will be hard but you also met a new group of people to make friends with also which is a positive cause that means you will have more firends than just the ones that are being stupid. Oh and by the way, that is one very nice car, what color?
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aarrrgg!! okay i kno this is wrong but it makes me sooo mad! okay so i am an only shild and everyone thinks that yea i am spoild but im not! my parents work soo hard to make shua im not spoild that i barley get anything! i mean they give me the basics you knoe clothes shelter and food. well i always have to save up my own money for anything that i want. like last summer i wanted a trampoline so i worked really hard and i save up money and bought my trampoline. well my best friend saw that i got one so she asked her parents to get her one and they did! well yea i was disappointed cuz i worked really hard and she just had to ask for it. this went on when i saved up for my cell phone and this really cute sweat shirt and with designer bags and everything!! aarrgg!!! why is everyone soo spoild! idk i prolly sound like a brat but i feel like im being cheated! and she always get the sam exact thing as me the very next week!
help me please
Well first of all that is awesome that you work for your own stuff casue u will enjoy what ever you buy more and you will take care of it, i am an only child too and i had to do the same thing. As far as the friends gettin stuff just like yours, for one they see you have it and they want it and its like they wanna be like you or have what you have. I know its frustrating that all they have to do is ask for it but you won't really relise why your parents are doing that to you till you are older cause they are instilling a very vauluable quality that is way too hard to teach when people get older.
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well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that?
Well these can kind of be tricky situations... if he doesn't know how u feel about him then you need to tell him if you want him to know. But you have a really good friendship with him and sometimes when feelings like that get put out in the open it can hurt a frienship espcally if he doesn't feel the same as you. Its your call but you have to be willin to put your friendship on the line and accept the outcome, whether it be good or bad.
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