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heya im sabrina..im 17...if i had to describe myself i simply would put it in these few words
*honest
*caring
*reliable
*helpfull
*happy
*crazy
*thoughtfull.
i am a very caring person an am willing to help anyone. i belive in second chances..but nothing more. i like to think people can trust me an find me easy to talk to as im a great listener.
i have have experienced alot of good and bad stuff in my life. and im working day by day to get over the bad. its what makes me stronger an i have learnt from alot of my wrongs. i belive in helpin others i live to make people happy. i try my best at most things but evan i can be wrong.i have amazing friends. and i wouldnt be here without them. talking gettin advice helps so much. i just want to give that back to people who need it. xxx

advice

I used to like this kid. like a lot. we kissed all the time and stuff like that, talked on the phone all the time. and somewhere in between all of that, he started talking to my best friend, and fell for her. so basically, he never calls me anymore, and I don't see him often anyway because he kinda far away. So now I'm starting to have doubts if he even did like me. Well about two weeks ago, the last time I saw him, he kissed me-- I kissed back. He told another best friend of mine that I kissed him first, I pulled his face in, all this stuff. He tried to put blame on me on a scenario that didn't even need "blame"... I was furious. My friends all told me "forget about him, hes a dick, he likes your best friend" all this shit. I agree with them, and I haven't really talked to him; he hasn't really called me (only twice since then) and I only called him once. I've been trying to tell myself hes such a dick, and for a little bit it worked. But now I'm realizing that I miss him. A lot. I miss kissing him, I miss him holding me, and I feel pathetic. He disrespected me and I feel used, but a part of me still wants him so bad. I can't talk to him about what he said either because the friend that told me said she wasn't supposed to tell me. What should I do? If I do see him, the next time is going to be the end of next month. Any advice?

It sounds to me asthough you have some good friends there. being honest with you about this an telling you. hold on to them.

this guy clearly dont know what he wants.
you proberly do mean something to him. from what you said about how close you were before with him.

it was wrong of him to start putting "blame" on you for something that he clearly had no problem with taking part in..remember it takes 2.

you`ll miss him. because of how close you were.

but think about it if he likes one of your friends whats to stop him being like that with her?

to me it sounds like you deserve alot better. maybe stay friends with him. but dont go any further unless you no its you he likes. an his not gana go behind your back telling your friends its all you.

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ok first i dont know if this goes here but whatever this is going to sound really stupid but ok iwas at hardees with my sister who is 15 and betsy who is 16 well betsy's brother Shane works there and we were about to leave just throwing stuff away when Betsy accidentally dropped a cup so ice and soda spilt on the floor so she started to clean it up with napikins but it was still wet so i was going to put there caution wt floor sign on it so no one falls or anything but then Betsy's brother Shane just starts yelling at me telling me to leave and that i do not touch that caution wet floor sign and stuff and so Betsy was like hello she was trying to help so cause someone is probably going to walk in here and fall and then sue you or something so we left and yeah i just cant get it out of my head and i know it's really majorly stupid but yeha i cant get it outt of my head

hmm it sounds like your friend betsy`s brother might of been having a bad day an took it out on you. which if he did he owes you an apology. which im sure he will give if he rialises how wrong it was of him to shout at you. afterall you were just looking out for the safty of everyone else.

if it still continues to trouble you..why not go see him in the week ask him if he is ok? ask him if anything is wrong..he might talk to you.

you did nothing wrong just remember that.

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