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My friend can get on my last nerves. Anything exciting I tell her s do she has to have something exciting all of a sudden too, she is also a pretty big liar.How do I solve this. (link)
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Dear "Jealous Friend?",
Sometimes when a friend acts like that is because like you said they are jealous. They are insecure in the value of themselves so they try to be like someone else. She apparently sees you as someone of great importance since she has looked to you to be like. In order to fix this you might try encouraging her to believe that she is a great person who people will like if she is herself. How do you do this you ask? Well, sometimes just asking them about themselves works. It shows that you want to hear what goes on in her life which will lead to her believing she does matter. Try to only talk about something that involves you when she is not around unless she directly asks you. The main thing is, is to try to get her to see that she needs to stop being someone she isn't and start being herself. Then people will like her because she is honest and they will know that they can actually believe what comes out of her mouth. This way she learns not only that she is a unique person, but there is not reason to be insecure about herslef because if people don't like her for who she truly is, not like her or dislike her for who she isn't, then they are not worth hanging around. You basically should just try giving her more self confidence. I hope this helps you out a little. Good Luck!
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It happens a few times but this time it made me sad. . . .
okk this is what happened:
we went to this dance right and i have these 3 friends i mostly hang out with and i admire them as my sisters but we aren't blood related though. . . yeahh.
My three friends were dancing but then more friends came and i was backed off and they did nothing. . . i was alone
this happened a few times i felt like i was nothing to them.
when it was over we hang out in front of the school and wait a while until we decided to go home
As usual they formed their own circle thingy
and i was out of it
one time my eldest friend
our class was skating
i told her i was going to go skate fast and yeah but then i came back to her and skated with her
while i was skating fast she was with lets call her A.
Friend A said to her to go skate with me because she was tired but then my friend said that i wasn't like a talkative person like talk about stuff
i was hurt.
I am sometimes talk alot one day and not the other day.
When I heard her say that I ignored it.
Sometimes they talk about stuff I don't even know of and talk behind my back
What do they think I am to them?
What should I do?
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Your friends seem as if they don't really care for you. This is not what a friend should be. Friends should be there for you, not talk behind your back and say mean things when you are around. My advice is that you need to begin to distant yourself from them and find some people that will treat you nicely and with respect, people who will be there for you when you need them. Make sure that you are there for them in return of course. I am really sorry that you are going through this I know how you feel. My old friends did the same, and then I went around and met new people and they turned out to be my best friends who are always there for me, respect me, and we just love to hang out and talk. I hope this helps.
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so i have this best friend. she is so great and we do and think everything the same. i LOVE being with her. is it possible to like her TO much? like not in a sexuall way but in like a way that she might get sick of each other way. (link)
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There is a chance that you could be to close to each other. In other words you spend your whole day around her. If this is the case then maybe you should sget some time away from each other. However, if you guys just think in similar ways that does not mean that you are to close it just means that you know each other very well. You may want to bring up your concerns to her and have two way conversation. This way she is not left out in the cold about your recent feelings and concerns. She may even fear the same thing. The best thing to do in my opinion would be to talk to her about this and see what she thinks. Then go from there.
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i have recently lost my bestfriend and all of my other friends..
i really can't take it anymore, school is torture, getting up in the morning is hell, and just doing things is just miserable..
any advice on what to do?? (link)
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In my opinion you need to try to talk with you best friend and friends, see what went on that put a hold on your relationship with them and try to fix it. Also, to begin talking to other people in your school, see witch people would be good to have as new friends. This way if it does not work out with your friends, then you will have other people to hang with and socialize with, and if it does work out then you have your friends, plus new people to talk to as well. And when you approach your friends, you may want to put your self in the position of the blame and not your friends. This way you are not putting them on the defense, but showing them that you are willing to take the blame for the issues that arose in the relationship. I hope this was beneficial to you. And Good luck.
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