My Name is Sean, and it's nice to meet you!
I am a genuine, sincere, down to earth young adult with many good things to say.
I can help you out with almost any situation, and I pride myself on doing just that.
I am a high school senior and plan to attend a TX 4 year university in the fall of 2008.
I plan to get my PHD in Psychology and become a therapist to young teens :)
Oh, and just an FYI all the questions asked on my profile before July of 07 were when I did this thing for fun, and I was much less mature than I am now. So please, kindly disregard all advice prior to July of 2007. :)
So without further delay, think up those questions and fire at will! :)
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I have these 2 guy "friends" that i hang out with and talk to and got to know pretty well through the year. (they are both going into college and are called "players" by alot of people). I don't like either of them, i just think they are really cool and fun to be around, but i dont really think they like hanging out with me. One of them likes to text and we text all the time, and the other is my neighbor and he comes over alot to hangout. When we are in person they are really nice, but when ever i ask to go hang out at the movies or something, they usually dont reply the text after i ask, or something. Are they really my friends or are they just bored and hanging out with me to be nice? Or am i jumping to conclusions? (link)
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I think what seems to be going on here from an outsider perspective is that the two guys are simply bored, simple minded guys who want nothing more than another girl they can be seen with to look good, or to make themselves feel god. From what you've told me, it seems like they really don't care a whole lot about you, there just a couple of guys who want nothing more than simple friendship, no strings attacthed.
Not to say thats a bad thing by any means, most people don't look for that deep friendship connection right off the bat anyways. Give it some time to develop perhaps, let the test of time itself determine if their your true friends or not. :)
Hope that helped :)
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I have a guy friend that I've known my entire life (he's my neigbor) and I've always had this want to maybe be more than friends.
For a while I thought I had a crush on him...but I told him and he said we have known each other too long, so I figured that maybe I didn't really have a crush on him. Soon after he got a girlfriend.
That was one year ago...they're broken up now. He asked me just as a random question if I would date him and told him I probably would...but his response was "I'm flattered, and I would probably date you too if I had the chance, but it would probably be too awkward. We've known each other too long..."
Ugh, I don't know what to think anymore. My friends say they see sparks between us, and I have questioned it myself...but I don't know if he'll ever give it a chance.
Maybe we're not made for each other...but I wish he would give it a chance and see if there ARE sparks...Yet, at the same time I don't want to ruin what he have.
What should I do?
P.S. Sorry it's long. (link)
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hmmmm, well it sounds like your very close wiht this guy
but sometimes, things are better left at friendship, rather than trying to take it up a notch. but, if youve got feelings for this guy then why not right?
i guess the closeness you have alreay could actualy even help, give it a shot and see what comes out of it, hes only a few steps away away :)
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i met this really nice guy on myspace. he's a junior in high school and i'm a freshman. we both live in jersey..about 2 hours from each other's town. we're both pretty much obsessed with music, are both hispanic =) & talk to each other on aim until about 1 or 2am. haha... we are trying to plan on meeting in person at a show but are having a tough time trying to get to
a) a good show so we dont have to explain to our parents wuts going on. haha
& b) a show thats not to far from either of us. it always ends up being like 20 minutes away from him and an hour and a half from me. or vise-versa.
....my problem is..if we succeed in finding a show that works out. should i go? cuz i still dont kno him THAT well. and even worse is he has a twin that'll probably go with him and i've seen pictures of them together. and i cant really tell the difference. so it'll be really weird. what should i do? (link)
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hmm
best advice?
NEVER meet anyone in person that you met online unless your 110 percent sure its them
becuase you just never know, ya know?
take the time to be sure your talking to the right person, manbey on the phone some too
you know? just be very careful
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my name's jess, im 14, and my best friend is just like me, but better. by a lot.
she's prettier then me, smarter than me, nicer than me, better at sports, better at art and singing, her parents are more flexible, if she does something wrong she gets away with it, she has more friends than me, she has whatever she wants to be pierced pierced, and more.
i cant even come up with any down-sides for her. and it drives me crazy because just when i forget about how perfect she is, i find out something else about her to make her even more perfect, or she does something that i've always wanted to do but never could do. what the heck should i do? its really lowering my self confidence or pride or whatever. i know that if i ever try to do something, she'll just come in and do it quicker than me and overall better than me. help? (link)
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lol everyones got that kind of friend, the one we all envy or wish you could be like
look dont stress about it, its not somehting in your control or something fixable, if you really feel THAT uncomfortable around her than dont hang out wiht her, but if your a good enough frined you should look past those thigns and enjoy what you have in common wiht her
thats what makes good friends
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there's this kid who likes me, and i like him too, but i have a boyfriend. and i like my boyfriend. and there's this OTHER boy that i like who likes someone else. do you think it's weird to be dating someone and like two other guys at the same time? (link)
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lol nah
its all in good fun, high school should be fun and a learning exprencine, just roll with it
follow your instincs and heart, as lame as it sounds
youll make the right decison in the end
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okay so sean, i am a sophomore in highschool and i know this kid who i was really good friends with and ever since he started dating this girl he's with now he never has time for me or any of his other friends for that matter and i miss hanging out with him soo much. but everytime i try to tell him he always changes the subject. what should i do? (link)
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if you really care about your frined like that, he should understand what your trying to say and vice versa, if he cares enough about HIS frineds, he should listen to waht your trying to say
becuase i wen't through the same thing with a friend of mine too, and it backfired
but eventualy after it's all over, he'll come back around
give it time, jsut keep at it
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Okay, so i have 3 best friends, and it used to be cool where we were all friends, but now they all hate each other. I try to balance it out to where i hang out with them all, and no one gets mad, but i always end up getting caught in the middle of their fights, and their always talking about each other. And it sucks because if i hang out with one the other two get mad that im with them, and it's like constant fighting.
What should i do? (link)
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hmm
if they don't like eachother than don't try to fix thigns by making them hang out with eachother you know?
it only makes things worse when you put people together that don't want to be
just try and sit them both down and talk to them about the probelms, and if it doesn't work, just start hanging out with them sepreatly
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what do i do if my best friend is in the hospital in a coma because she tried to kill herself?
cause i'm freaking out and i'm worried sick about her but she lives a thousand miles away so i can't exactly go visit
advice would be nice.
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jeez
that sounds pretty bad
just be sure to call her parents alot and see how shes doing, theres not a whole lot you can do right now
i pray if she gets out of the coma, you deinftly need to talk to her
but just pray and give her family support rgiht now
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uhm so yea my friend cuts himself because of his ex gf and i feel reali bad and i want 2 help him but i dnt no wat 2 do .. all he does is think about her and talk about her ..i keep trying 2 tell him that shes just hurting him more and he should 4get about her.. its pretty sad since im the onli person he talks 2 about it .. i dnt no wat 2 say .. or do .. jus 2 comfort him ..
help ..?
xnoliesjustlovx (link)
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hmm
well its good that you and your freind are close, that means you can talk about almost anything i hope
really sit him down and ask him why he cares so much about this one gurl, because its not worth hurting yourslef over a rel. trust me
if that doesnt work, go to a parent or cousler and see if you can get him some pro. help, becuase he mite need it despite no mater if he denys it or not
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Alittle over a month ago, my friend killed himself.
He talked to me the night he did it, and it all seems to be getting tougher and tougher.
Whenever I think about things, I feel like I could have helped in some way.
He told me how he was feeling, and I talked to him, about it.
I never knew he would leave our friendship.
I miss him.
Myabe if i talked to him more he would have stayed.
It's not my fault, right?
-Erin (link)
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aw
dont feel bad! look
your friend did what he did becuase he truly felt he had too
ok, you talked to him about it, thats what freinds are for, theres unfournatly really nothing you can do when somehring like that happends, you could get them all the help in the world, and it stil proly wouldnt change a thing
just rember all the good times yall had togehter :) you are a great freind and you know it
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