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Q: my friend sophie used to be INLOVE with my brother for 2 YEARS!!! my brother has never had any interest in her what so ever. they have hooked up and had sex for all of 2 minutes.. but to him its just a fling..then she goes all crazy in love with him as soon as she gets over him. but i dont believe someone that has been in love for 2 years can get over a guy in just 1 day.. that seems highly impossible. shes always talking about him badly so all i say is 'ok' or 'hmmm' after she says somethng. then shes all like 'dont you even care what im saying..he has HURT me' and i was like hes my brother soo what do you expect me to say!? i dont really know what to do about her. shes always talking bout my brother. i said to her i didnt really wanna hear it. but its most days. does she still love him? or is she just trying to piss me off ??
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She still must have feelings for him but honestly if I were you I'd tell her either you stop talking about him or you stop coming over because I'm tired of this.. I did that with my friend ebcause I was so tired of hearing her complain about her and her now x finally always fighting it. But ya I think if it really annoys you tell her becuase you seem like you've suffereed enough and I know it may b hard for her but she has to think about your feelings as well
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Q: Hey, my name is Nikki. My brother is 18 and his friends come around ALL THE TIME! So when I have my friends over, there always over. My brothers friends are like my brothers, because I have known them for SO long. My friend Jess was over one time and was like "whose that? hes hot" (talking about brothers friend carl) So i was like carl.. and shes like hes hot as. So she went on bebo and went through my list to get my brothers bebo so she could get carls bebo. Now they talk. So, i made a rule.. saying "none of the girls over when the guys are over" so she was like why?? and i was like because you girls (when my other girl mates are over) always flirt with him and stuff. Now they are going to have sex sometime soon! She always talks about him, which bugs me. They can talk to each other if they wanna talk about each other. It feels like she only wants to come over when hes over. What do I do? Ive explained how i feel and what my rules are between the too. I dont care if they have sex, because thats not my choice. I just dont want it to overcome our realtionship. And ive told her that we arnt going to talk about carl again because it grosses me out. Bestfriend + brother = :S.. soo what do I do now ?
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I know it would be awkard for you but you've done all you really can do. Telling her that she's not allowed when he's over is good because than hyou'll know that shes over for you and not for him... I'd say just leave it if they stay together great but if they break up be there for her becuase she will need you there to comfort her..and yes if they do it'll be hard and really awkward but you seem like a smart girl and you know what you will have to do than...hope that helps:)
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Hey whats up! If you wanna know about me all you have to do is ask. I am very good at giving advice although sometimes I can be very harsh when it comes to the truth. But the truth hurts and if I am brutely honest I'm sorry. I listen to Dr. Laura so that could be why sometimes. I dont care what you say about her.. I like her deal with it but if you need advice just let me know and I'll do my best to help you out :)
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Gender: Female Location: Colorado but born in GERMANY! woo woot! Occupation: student Age: 21 ICQ: Member Since: November 20, 2009 Answers: 28 Last Update: December 1, 2009 Visitors: 3455
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