Alright well, my friend C and K fake make ouut and kiss all the time. You know where you put your hand over there mouth and kiss it? Well, the other day C kept doing it to K. And put her legs all over her and was all into it. She kept touching K. K looked really uncomfortable. I'm thinking C is lezbo-curious or bi-curious whatever you want to call it. By the way she is only 12.!. What do you think?? I would love to hear your comments. I just think it's wrong 'cause she is only 12.
being 12 is the time when everything feels so weird, ur hormones range and u change physically maybe C is just going through a tough time. it hard to say whether shes les or not.. but lets not jump to conclusions and assume that just becoz she acts like that, shes a les.
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Hey friend is really thin and she has her hip bones sticking out is that ok bc i always tell her to eat more bc she think shes fat *shes 5'5 108 pounds* is that ok?
lol thats kinda underweight, but usually she could be suffering from fast metabolism, of course theres nothing wrong with fast metabolism, im quite thin myself lol. by telling her to eat more doesnt mean she will put on weight (if she has fast metabolism), if she continues to say shes fat, please keep a look out on her, she might be turning aneorexic (not that i wanna scare ya, but reality does catch on you sometimes) take care and hoped i helped a litte =P -Rei
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Ok HeReS HoW It StArTeD:
I WaS OvEr At My FrIeNdS HoUsE(aka person) AnD ThIs iS OuR CoNvO.
Person: Ummm I need To Tell you Sumin Serious But you Cant Tell AnYbOdY!!!
Me: Ok You Can TrUsT Me
Person: I think I mite Be bi
Me: Bi as in Bisexual
Person: Duh
Me: Wow
PersOn: I kno
Me: So r you atrracted to any of our friends?
Person: yea
ME: Are you attracted to me?
Person: Maybe
So Thats It. So Im confused cuz it kinda grosses me out cuz what if she invites me to sleepover and since i cant tell anybody about it she'll get invited to sleepoers nd stuff so she could try to make a move on me nd my friends i need help
ill rate!!
since u said u could be trusted, why did u post this question here? arent u afraid that she might find out about this??
it okay to be confused. if she asks u for a sleepover, kindly say u cant make it. if she continously asks u the same questions, maybe u should get it out straight wit her. of course theres nothing wrong in being Bi.. ur reaction about wanting to "protect" ur pals from her might make her feel 'different' and unwanted. that shouldnt be the way. accept her for the way she is, as friends try her out through this period. hoped i helped! good luck -Rei
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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?
dun worry theres nothing wrong at all! sometimes periods are not always "on time" so tell her not to worry so much. she could go see a doctor if shes still worried about it.
hope shes okay.. good luck! -Rei
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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?
talking to her might work if u constantly remind her that the reason why their relationship ended was becoz he was "using" her and playing with her heart. but this obsession will slowly die when she notices that he no longer shows interest in her. often people dwell on the past because they are afraid of what might happen to them in the future.. reassure her and support her, give her loads of care and hugs and tell her its time to move on. of course try not to sound too irritating, she might not like it.. -Rei
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Hey Rei,
I was wondering if you could help me with an issue on friends. I once told a friend what I w anted in a friendship, someone I can trust & depend on, someone who will hear me chatter crap and basically well someone who will love me as me and she said it was as if I were looking for a boyfriend. Lol. Do friendship last? Alot of my friends come and go and I am beginning to feel that the reason is me. At times, I would feel paranoid like how they think of me, are they using me and things like that. I feel that sometimes I am underappreciated. I would do almost anything for my good friends and I don't think they know that. I don't really know how to express myself well being broughtup in a chinese environment. (I don't know if that's an excuse but I believe it's partly why I am like this). We don't show big expressions like hugs and such that much. It just feels weird. I would really love to have a BEST friend, I never really have one. Someone who knows you in and out, I am envious for all those who finds one. And I hate it when my friends are insensitive to me. Or am I oversensitive, I tend to be hurt my small, thoughtless comments by people who are dear to me. For example, like when they suddenly don't talk to me, I feel as if they are mad at me and will be wondering what did I do wrong. Well after it, maybe they were mad but it was for a brief moment or not even it, they're just quick to temper. or something like that. I am just ranting, aren't I? Sorry. I hope you can answer my questions if they are there, well er read between the lines? Thanks.
sure i would love to help. (thanx for asking me btw, since ur the 1st *hugs*)
you asked if friendships last. its a good question but the answer differs with different people. do not get paranoid with urself (it usually gets you nowhere), think positive. if u feel that they are using you, maybe u should tell her. dont keep it inside of you! thats really important because in a friendship, communication is really important. strengthen up your communication with her, and maybe from there u might get to know her better then u know her now.
often people dont know how to express themselves, be it a simple hug or wadever, dun blame the enviroment! if i need a hug, i'll ask for one. and if u ever need a hug, i'll be here to give you one. dun forget the other people around ya, they appreciate you around, they might not show it, but deep down inside they care. (DUN FORGET THIS!) they care ALOT. finding the right friend to call the best is whether u believe in urself if u can find her. but before that, ask urself, ARE YOU READY FOR THIS NEW FRIENDSHIP? the time might not be now, but the time will definately come in the near future. she might be right infront of your eyes for all u know. it can come fast and even end fast. sustaining it is easier said then done, but tell urself its possible. tell urself shes worthy of the countless tears u cried for her. tell urself shes ur bestfriend and u'll stand by her like how she stood by you. emotions are sometimes hard to control, cry it out if u must. it doesnt show that ur sensitive or oversensitive. its show that u have feelings, and ure someone who cares for a friend.
i hope it helps, and good luck with ur search in finding your bestfriend! (if theres anything more, or a question i left out, feel free to drop me another question! i'll be happy to help out whenever i can) -Rei
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