Rainbow Diva
I m a lesbian woman, but I can lend my ears, heart and mind to any situation given it s one of distraught or curiousity.
I know all the heartaches of being lonely and can help u as we both go through it. NO i do not have all the answers anyone who says that they do is a fool i do believe that u help others and others can help u so i am not perfect and tend to need a helping hand too.
I ve been at both ends and will gladly lend my good and bad life s experiences with u so u can overcome some of the adversity in your life!
NO worries:)
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OK, so there's this girl at school who's not that popular, but this year we've been put in some of the same classes and we got talking. She's quite nice, but embarrassing to be around because she's so loud and shouty! I'm also worried because when I'm hanging round with my friends she always comes over from her own friends to speak to us, and my other friends start laughing at her. Though I feel sorry for her, I wish she'd stop being so geeky and then maybe she could stop embarrassing me in front of my friends. She's also ditching her other friends to spend time with us, so I'm worried she'll end up with no friends at all. HELP! (link)
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First of all, no one is better than the next person even though in school some people may not feel that way. You may feel that she s embarrassing you now but when u get older and mature you ll know that what ur friends think about someone u find nice, attractive, funny, or just plain fun to be around wouldn t matter.
U need to be your own person and have ur own thoughts and feelings and stop worrying about what other people think. That makes u a follower, and that is LAME!
Do what u feel is right and in the end u ll have no regrets or bad feelings like u are having now!
NO worries mon :)
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I wasn't really sure where to put this, so I picked friendship, since it has to do with a friend.
Okay, so it's indirectly about my best friend. Her name is Lisa. But it's also about her boyfriend. His name is Tyler.
So, recently, Tyler told me that he's wanted to ask me out since he first came to our school in the middle of this year. (I'm a girl, in case you people didn't already figure that out.) I've always liked him, but I never let on. But now, he knows.
So, today, I stayed after school, because I didn't want to go home and clean my room. (It's a MESS.) Well, Tyler ALWAYS stays after school. For reasons unbeknownst to me. (I hope I spelled that right.)
Well, at first, we were just sitting at the picknick table, talking. About nothing, really. Then we got onto the subject of us liking eachother. Which quickly turned into flirting.
I had a metal... Thing, I have no idea what it was... in my hand. Well, Tyler took it. I tried to get it back, wich turned into us holding hands. Which turned into a kiss... Which turned into a make-out session...
Now, Lisa is my very best friend in the whole wide world, and I'd rather do ANYTHING than hurt her... But I think I just did.
We both knew it was wrong. And it was. Now I'm wondering what I should do. Please help me. :( (link)
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HELLO!
First off all things happen for a reason, and no matter what happens this to will pass. I feel that u and him should keep that to yourself because it will only be letting you and him off the hook and clearing your conscience when you two are the guilty ones.
However as a friend your stuck between a rock in a hard place because now your best friend has a man that will potentially cheat on her and not only that but with her best friend, he is not the man for either of you because he is coming between two friends. I feel that if you and her are really good friends no man should come between that.
So you need to leave him alone and so does your friend. Who wants a man that will come between two best friends. Thats almost like sleeping with your sister and I know you wouldnt want a man that wld try and get with ur sister
anyways just go with your heart and you will never go astray
No worries mon :)
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