Hello, I am a 14 year old female that lives in central illinois. i would love to help anyone out there with any problems that they might have. i have over 300 pets and am an only child. i love animals and want to be a vet someday. i also wish for world peace. i am a freshman and have a lot of really close friends that i can depend on, but it wasn't always like that. before i moved i never had a friend to confide in or get help, which is why i am doing this because i want to help ne1 out there like me!!
Gender: Female
Location: central, IL
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: Boycrazmnk
Member Since: December 29, 2004
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Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out) (link)
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my opinion. well if you never expressed to this boy that you liked him or never gave it a go at getting with him then hey she got him first. a lot of close friends like the same boy i know that my group of friends do, but it is first come first serve. what you did back to her was horrible because you could have made him sooooooooo mad, that even if they break up now he will never like you. and sorry to say this, but your friend is right. what you did was worse. you need to apologize to them and pray that they forgive you which they might not. let her have the boy she got him first and if she isn't prgnant then you could have caused a lot of problems. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
_Janine_* (link)
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first off you need to find out if the problem with cancer in your town can affect you because you need to look out for number one. talk to a friend, family member, or someone you trust about what's going on with your life. you need to get your negative feelings out otherwise they might get bottled up inside you and you might do some ting really bad like cut yourself or even attempt suicide. just remember eventhough your friend isn't there in body she'll always be there in spirit. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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14/f my friend got mad at me because of something i said. i didnt mean for it to hurt her at all, and actually i dont think its rude in any way at all. i told her i was sorry and she refuses to talk to me now. what should i do (link)
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well it depends what did you tell her if it was someting serious that you think she REALLY needs to know then explain to her why it is that you said it. if it is someting that you think she could live without then tell her it was all a big joke that is if her friendship means that much to you!
**SpAz**
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