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my friend was talking to the guy i like and she brought me up. she ended up asking him if he liked me and he said only as a friend. she texted me later and told me and now i feel sick. we have block scheduling and i see him first thing tomorrow. i dont know what to do. im not mad at her for asking him and im not mad at him for not liking me, im mad at myself for thinking that he would ever like me. he doesnt necessarily know i like him but it isnt that hard to put 2 and 2 together. what do i do? i dont want to ignore him but im afraid if we keep talking ill end up liking him still and what if he stops talking to me in our class? that would suck, i dont want him to feel awkward! thanks!
just because he SAYS he doesn`t like you more than a friend ; doesn`t mean that`s true. For one ; it was your friend talking to him - so he may have felt uncomfortable telling her because he thought she might tell you. Two, he may have an interest in you, but doesn`t know for sure yet. && if that`s the case ; make sure you continue to talk to him! He`ll want to know that even HE may have a chance with YOU. don`t underestimate yourself. :)
But three, if he actually does NOT like you more than a friend; don`t sweat it. I know right now it feels like you`ve been let down ; but don`t worry about it. It seems like it`s just a crush. crushes come and go. I`m sure if he`s not that in to you, you`ll find a new guy who will be lucky to have liked you. :)!!
ok i have verizon wireless.
with the txt and picture plan where i have unlimited to verizon users and 500 to outers. its 10 dollars a month.
i was wondering.... what about aim on my phone??
i went on it and it said reminder: if you send to many ims on aol, save now and get the txt plan.
so does that mean i can use aim on my fone without being charged extra???
because theres this guy i talk to online.. and im not supposed to talk to guys.. so my parents check my computer... so if i go on my fone.. tehy cant see it. so i was wonderin if it did???
I have verizon too, and i use the AIM. the msgs, are like txts. & they can`t see on your computer what you`ve been saying, but they can check your phone and see.
WHY is it ok for black guys to date caucasian chicks but it's not ok for black ladies to date caucasian guys.
It`s okay either way. People are judgmental & you don`t deserve to be discriminated. =)
*hope that helped
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Around a month or two ag, I called up a frend that i haven't talked to in 5 year. I'm not sure whether to keep talking to her or just to cut the tie. Can you help?
I`ll tell you before hand, that if i were in this situation; this is what I would do. I would NOT cut the tie. A friendship is a friendship. She may live far away from you, but that doesn`t mean there`s no hope for your friendship to grow when you get older? [idk how old you are though] possibly, when you get older, you can meet her more, drive out to see eachother, or something like that. Get her address so that you two can mail eachother back && forth. If she has the internet you two can e-mail. Long story short ; don`t cut the tie.
My friend is going to a boarding school and I am so upset how can I feel a little better about it. She is my best friend and I am having such a hard time.
Jenni
make sure you can keep in touch with her.
even have her over or meet up with her occasionally. i don`t know if this means she`s going a REAL FARRR way away, but if she is, i know that she`ll be able to go home on some holidays - if so, make sure you see her then. I`d be upset if my friend was moving too, but everyone always finds away to make it okay. =)
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Well I have this friend, she's a year younger (7th grade) and we're like best friends. Well I told her who I liked the other day and she said she 'likes' him to. we both like another person ( her other is different than mine) but I don't think she really does. We agreed not to let this come 'between us', but then the next morning, she asks him out he didn't answer her yet, but I'm really upset because I reaally like him.
what should i do besides talking to her because i already tried that?
I rate 5's for helpfulness.
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Ok. if you tried talkiing already, then i can really only think of one other solution that will actually help. If yu really like this guy, and yu feel upset, then maybe yu should wait and see what happens. If he says "yes" then i think yu shud wait and see what happens. I kno yu'll be upset, but its better to have one person upset, than 2! So wait it out. Then if nothing happens, such as breaking up, or arguments, maybe yu could try finding someone else. I kno yu may think that he is "the one", but, trust me, there are probably 30 other guys that yu didn't even kno existed.. After a while, if thats a "real" friend, she should notice how upset yu were. - From there on yu need to use yur own judgement. I hope this helps! Good luck! & trust me, there are atleast 1 million people who are going thru the same thing, or who have experienced it too.. including me.
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