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You can call me B. I'm 18 years old and am a freshman studying music. I've been around for a while, been through a lot, and have seen everything my eyes are capable of seeing. Please feel free to drop a question in my inbox. I love helping people to the best of my capability. -Ms. B
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Its been 15 weeks since I came to this college, and I still don't have any real friends. Yes I talk to people every now and then but I still feel really alone. I have left my dorm room door open most of the time and not a single person has ever walked up and started talking to me. I have joined clubs but they are not really active and everyone seems to scatter when the meetings end. It's now the end of the semester but I am hoping that next semester brings a new start and I want some advice on what I can do to meet people
My best friend is in the same situation. It's terrific that you joined clubs, and leave your door open to newcomers, and the fact that your so optimistic about next semester is awesome. Definitely continue the things your doing. A few girls on my floor had a baking party [if your a guy you could invite some boys over for a football game], this will give you the opportunity to go to other peoples rooms and invite them to your room. Good Luck.
-Ms. B
17/f I'm a junior in high school and the school has a little over 4000 kids. I have many friends and they are all in different groups. The amount of close personal good friends I've made since freshman is around 30. amount best friend has made 0. She gets jealous easy and doesn't get along with my friends (almost cost me one of my best friends) so I've tried to get her friends with some of my friends. She always had complaints, they partied too much, too stuck up, too punkish, too hippie, etc. But I have a few friends who were just average and nice. She hardly talked! It's really irritating and she is my bestest friend when were alone but with others? Is no fun at all.
Unfortunately, everyone is different. It's awesome that you tried getting her out their, to meet new people. Maybe plan a movie night with you and two friends including your best friend. Sometimes smaller groups go along better than big groups. If that doesn't work, you'll most likely just have to schedule time to hang out with her, and to hang out with your other friends. But, remember, never let her effect the friendships you have with your other friends. Also remember, 1 best friend is better than 100 friends (as my mother told me growing up).
-Ms.B