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Mitch Moore, LONDON

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My Friend has a boyfriend called Callum.
They were best friends before hand :)
But out of the blue his dad died 2 weeks ago.

She doesn't know how to be there for him.
I've told her she just needs to be there for when he is ready to talk about and not push him to far. I told her he isn't going to be himself for a while so always take it into consideration if he not in the mood to hang out or whatever,

but I really want to help her.
Because everytime something bad goes wrong in a relationship for her and she gives up. This is a very hard thing for her to deal with. She's not at all emotional - What advice can I give her to look after her boyfriend? What should she do to make sure he's ok?

Hi,
Well the advice you've already given her is absolutely right. All she can do is be there to support him, listen to him and really just love him! The thing is nothing she or any one can do or say will bring him back. It will take time, maybe a long time and there's no easy way to deal with it but with time things will get better. And I think you need to support your friend in a similar way to how she needs to support her boyfriend. There's nothing you can do to change the situation, all you can do is be there and be a friend. Take care, MM

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