Hello..it's been a long time.I start this 6 years ago.. i'm now 23 years old,and working as a babysitter.I may not fit to be Advicenators,but I give my best to you all.I play games,reads manga and also i'm an Author at Wattpad. i'm a still a shy person obviously,hehe..but you can chat or talk to me freely,i'll be listening.
E-mail: Lesterveq@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Malaysia
Age: 23
Member Since: November 20, 2013
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I'm from the Philippines and I'm 13. Sorry If I have some grammatical errors.Sometimes in school I just feel like I'm no one. No one ever talks to me unless it's really important. I can't understand. I tried my best for them to notice me, but they don't. I have a few friends, but I they aren't just the friends that can really 'understand' me.
So let me describe myself. I'm pretty (others say) but I'm short and chubby, I can draw well (one of the best in my class I think), I can play the guitar and piano,and I'm an honor student. I think I have a good attitude, but sometimes I'm just shy. I also love books and I'm in different 'fandoms' like I'm a Directioner, a Swiftie, and fans of fiction books like Harry Potter and Percy Jackson. I'm really not the girly girl, I don't like girly fashion like others do.
I just can't understand. Are they avoiding me because I'm shy? Or is it because I'm chubby? Or because I don't like fashion?
I also hate it when they compare me to my sister. She's a year older than me and she's pretty to. We are exactly the same except I'm into fandoms and books and she's into girly things and love stories. I can say she's kinda popular in our school and my classmates adore her. I can't understand why they don't act like that when it comes to me. Not that I'm jealous, but sometimes they don't treat me as me. When others see me they're all like "You're Anna's(not her real name) sister right?"
I tried to be into these girly things, love, etc. But I just can't. I don't really like those stuff.
Sorry if this is kind of confusing. >.< So what can I do to have friends? To make them notice me as I am? Should I change? Please. I need advice. (link)
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Hello there,i think you should change, a bit.I know you don't like a girly fashion,but you should try maybe you will like it.You're pretty,intelligent and smart,if you change to a girly fashion,they will notice you.If you like books like Harry potter and Percy Jackson you can still go on with it,it's a good books.I like it too.
I don't know if this will help you,i can only give an advice,it's up to you what you gonna do.
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my bestfriend for years has been distancing herself from me and hanging out with other people. i have tried to join their group but they seem to have too many inside jokes, and don't really want to include me. i don't want to sound needy, but i have only had that one best friend for years and never had the intention of becoming close with anyone else. i don't have anyone to talk to now, or hang out with, i don't even know what to do with myself, now that i have all of this free time. what should i do? :( (link)
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You should go make a new friend.If you have a family,you should go hanging out with them.Like go to picnic or something.
If you really-really dont know what to do,then.You should do more activity like you always do when you have a free a time.
Or, if you have,ambition.You should do something that can make your ambition came true.Its exciting you know..cause its full of travel.
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My 'friends' are really mean to me lately, patricularly two guys. Granted, one is my ex and I turned down the other, but they're both really very mean to me. They call me things such as sl-t, b-tch, and lesbian (obviously I'm not, I dated one of them, though I do have a pixie cut) every day, usually in my homeroom, where they both sit next to me. I try talking to my best friend (who is dating my ex) but she tells me its my fault. I tried talking to them today at our lunch table, and I called them mean, and they acted shocked and told me I'm the mean one, and everyone agreed (I almost started crying ), except for my best guy friend, who told them to shut up (love him). ...
The thing is, is that I /can/ be really mean. But I don't try to, really. I have bipolar disorder, and have struggled with depression since I was little, and anorexia at home and bulimia at school (I'm a mess). I think I'm pretty sometimes, though, so when they call me ugly I'm not too annoyed. It's just when they say I'm mean. I want to explain why and say that I'm sorry, but I obviously can't :( How do I deal with this? Because even though I hate them, I would die for them. (And yes, I do therapy, and blah blah blah, etcetera).
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I'm NOT a sl-t, because I've never even held hands with a guy, let alone kiss one, and I havn't had a boyfriend for two years. The guy I kindof turned down tells me that I'm really desparate, but I never even speak to guys, I'm so insecure!!
Can you guys and gals and men and women please help me with this whole problem? (link)
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You have to be brave to tell them..and just ignore what they say about you,i am sure they will forget it..if they say all the stuff to you,why do you would die for them.seriously you dont have to be friend to them cause if they say like that,they are not friend...
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