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ok i hav this friend chris who is one of my best friends and now i like him more than that. he wrote me a note and said he liked me too...the prob is my friend brit has really liked him for lik..literlly 3 yrs. i cant let either one of them no how i feel becuz shell get hurt. help

well talk ta her about it nd tell her that u like him alot nd he likes u and u wood like ta trii somthin wit him and stuff nd if she gets upset its not worth losing ur best friend over

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All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help

okai well this is happening to one of mii friends too well it happend ta her before but ne wais .. ur friends shoodnt b ganging up on u and maken u choose... thats rong becasue u cant help who u love .. but its alwais chicks before dicks but if u reeli love him talk ta ur friends

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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!!

okai well u needa sai somthin to her becasue shes gonna keep doin it becasue she thinks ur week soo next time pik up the phone nd sai "u kno wut bitch ur fucken pathetic nd ur imiture who the fuck does that seriuslee get a fucken life " SHES PROLEE JUS jelius that u have her old bff

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ok I love my friends so much but I get tired of sum like Jake Yves Chantal I don't they're cool but most of them they get on my nerves I'm going to high school and I know alot of pplz there but I don't want to ditch Chantal and Jake the closest ones I have what sh0ould I do?....I need new friend other then sum

well dont jusz dr0p them nd forget about them ! jus meet new people but u shood still have time for ur old friends

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What iif yur best friend likes the sayme kid as yu do!?! whta do yu do0? im so0 confused riight now! i made out with this kid last night nd so0- did she!!!!...uhh ii dont no but she went to his house 2day nd who nos wuht! i new him for such a long time 2!! - he wanted to get wiht me so0 mii other friend who was there hooked us up! but i was getin tired nd didnt feel to good so0 mii bess friend went nd made out with him right after me! :( ... i dont no wut to doO! uhhh sum1 plz help me i rate good!!!! thanx
...Me...

okai well tell ur friend how u feel nd that u got wit him first nd stuff nd u dont think its right if she jus takes somthin good awai from u like that...xxox Jessi

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i have known one of my friends for all my life....but she is immature for me...even though we r the same age i am in a higher grade because i started school early....she is jealous of my bestfriend...becuz she has known me for my whole life.....what should i do just let things go it own way?

hey i have the same exact problem but we are in the same grade...jus tell her that u cna have more then one good friend nd that its hard for her ta like hang wit u in skewl nd shitt becasue shes ina lower grade nd that like ur still reeli good friends with her nd erri thing but she dont havta b like imiture about it...xoxo Jessica

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okay so today i went to my bff's jackie (we'll call her) and we went to her nfs house jo (we'll call him) so jackie and i went to jos house and he had some friends over and the're all kinda into a bad crowd and i really don't fit in with them or do the stuff they do. well they had these bomb things they made and there all swearing and hidding and r all talkin that "omg the f-in cops r gonna come! lets go into the woods" and so then i was gettin all scared so i really wanted to leae but i didnt wanna go with out jackie so i was droping hints like crazy tell her that i wanted to go. but i knoe she wanted to stay with jo so i kinda held off for awhile.. but then when the threw the first explosive that was it i just left and so jackie came with me.. i really wanted to cry bcuz i knoe thats the kinda crowd i knoe im not supposed to b in and i don't knoe y i ever hung out with them in the first place. did i do the right thing? even though all of jos friends and prolly jackie think im a goodie goodie or a wimp! how to i ever talk to them again with out them making fun of me??

u did the right thing..nd if they thing ur a wimp dont let it bother u beacasue they are gonna b the ones gettin in trouble..soo tell them ta lay off..! xoxo Jessi

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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared!

okai i did alot of research on anorexia it is a reeli bad eatin disorder nd 15% of the people die from it soo maib u shood like tell her that u dun want her gettin hurt nd she means alot to u nd ur scared soo ask her if u can help her nd the best thing to do is be there for her nd stick by her side nd let her no that hope i helped xoxo Jessi

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