about

Name: Laura
Age: 14
Single or taken: Hem, single...
Height: 5'7 and a half
Weight: A three digit number
Eyes: Green
Hair: Reddish Brownish blondeish? lol
Grade: 9th.
Schooled at: Home
Race: Umm, I'm German, Irish, French and Italian...?
Religion: Christian (Baptist to be exact)


Don't fall for someone who won't be there to catch you.



advice

OK I have this "friend". Really she used to be my best friend, then I went away for the summer and she really started irritating me by talking about all these hot guys she's saying and how they all hit on her and how when I come back I get the less hotter one because she saw them first. WTF is that?! Do any of your friends do this? And plus, I KNOW for a fact that all of them do not hit on her because 1) She's honestly not that attractive. I'm prettier than her, and I don't really think I'm all that pretty anyway. 2) Whenever we went out together, which was quite alot, nobody ever hit on her. She'd always approach the guys she knew first.

Well anyway, back to what I was originally saying...over the summer things got different. After I got back things were not the same between her, me, and our other mutual friend. The mutual friend and I would still get online and call each other and hang out and stuff. But the main girl barely wanted anything to do with us. The one thing that set me off was one day we were all supposed to go to Ryan's (a steakhouse) which is 30 minutes away but this "friend" called and bailed on me (telling me she had a headache and didn't want to drive) like she always ALWAYS used to but I always took it from her. So I was pissed and asked my other friend to go hang out so we went to Wal-Mart and guess who pulled up right as we were walking home?

Yup you guessed it. So the other friend asked for a ride and the "friend" looked kinda irritated then hesitated. Since then I haven't spoken to her till a few days ago. Today she was suposed to take me to pick up my check from Subway, but she didn't. I called twice, left a message on her phone and on AIM but nothing. I knew she wasn't going to come which is why I made plans for someone else to take me.

My problem is, she wants me to go to her birthday party on Friday and since she's been such a terrible friend to me and done nothing but made me feel ugly when we were out together (by saying the hot guys were looking at her not me), and never keeping promises or plans...should I go? I mean normally I'm such a loyal person but I think she's just gone overboard with this. I'm sick of it.

I'm so sorry this was long...I just thought you all should nkow the whole story. Thanks for answering and I will rate you a 5 if you even put one sentence just because you read all this! :D

I read it all, my friend has a thing for typing 2 page letter things, so I don't mind. :D

Anyway, I suggest you go to the party. I know people like her. They make stuff up to feel loved and everything, but seriously they just need friends. She's going to be lonelier than ever when she realizes that the guys really don't hit on her, and she's blown off all her friends, and she's all alone. I say go, and make the best you can of it.

~Laura~

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Hey. Today in class I was like to my teacher (in front of everyone) "Your wife is really pretty, don't you think shes out of your leauge" And we talked about it the day before, and we were laughing and stuff.. so I thought it wouldent be like mean or anything. But it was only me and him..not the whole class. So he got mad and was like "Ohhh I'm gonna fail you now" And I know he's joking but I felt bad and said sorry. I asked him if we could be best friends (lol) and he said yep. So I wanna get friendship bracelets lol...or rings cuz hes a guy lol. Just to show how truly sorry I am. Because I guess it was stupid of me to do that...so where the heck do i get friendship stuff? Oh and can I get it cheap? :-D

Lmao. Being friends with a teacher is SO not cool. :P But seriously, they have tons of stuff like that at Kohls and Wal-Mart. I bought friendship necklaces at Wal-Mart, and they have rings, too!

~Laura~

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I have a friend that i have been friends with for like two or three years. we go to camp together every year, and we always end up getting in a fight. this year i wouldn't let her use my phone card. i had 200 minutes, and she had 70 and she wanted to use mine, i didn't let her cause my dad paid and he said not to let anyone else use it, and she had minutes of her own. that kinda stuff we always fight about. and she invites her other friends over ALL THE TIME but she never invites me over. i feel like we're growing apart. what do I do!?
signed
friend trouble

If I were you, I'd tell your friend that it's bothering you. Just be like "I know sometimes we fight but I care about you a lot. I don't like fighting with you and I feel like we're growing apart, and I don't want that to happen". Just talk with her. Then maybe have her spend the night at your house and stay up and chit chat.

~Laura~

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its my friends birthday on sunday.. n im going to her party saturday to sunday.. i have no idea what to get her!! shes a punk girl who likes soccer.. so if u could give me ideas thatd b great!! i'll rate u!!

They have AWESOME punk jewelry at hot topic, I got screw ear rings from there. If she likes it, and you have one at your mall, get her a gift certificate. It's a pretty big store, so she can pick out any thing she wants. I got my friend some fire shoe laces from there, too, and an MXPX patch. Just some ideas.

~Laura~

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Okay well i have this frined and all she does is give me an attudie..-she aint really ma frined no more - becasuse on what she does to me so as i was sayin ..wen i tell her i like sumone shes like i like him too an trys to go out with him but that bot dont like her...but its weird becasue all she does is bytch and complain to me and when im doin sumthin cool she wants to chyll with me becasue she wants to have fun so she asks the teacher if she can come with me ...so it pisses me off alot ...HELP ME WITH HER PLZ

-singed
HELPPPPPP WHAT DO I DO

It sounds like she just wants to be with you. Though my friend does the same thing, and likes all the same people I do. It's probably just because she likes you and wants to hang out with you, and she's jealous of all the cool stuff you get to do. Tell her that it bothers you and to hang back a bit.

~Laura~

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Hey Hey,

Well one of my friends hurts herself becasue she is depressed and I found this out from another friend and I wrote a letter to the friend that was hurtin herself that she shouldn't do that and that too many ppl love her and that we don't know what we would do without her and she said that she just needs ppl to understand her and I said I would. But now the friend that told me about my depressed friend is mad at me because I supposidily promised her that I wouldn't tell anyone that I knew. I don't know what to do. Should I forget it? The friend that is mad at me was one of my best friends. HELP!

Well, the only person you told is the friend that does it. And she already knows she does it, it's not a big deal. Just tell your mad friend that your friend means a lot to you and you wanted her to know you love her, so you talked to her, and you're sorry but you had to. Good luck!

~Laura~

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Hi, my friend from church is 18 and shes pregnant. She started going out with a non-christian guy and my youth group thought it wouldent be a good idea. She wont come to church, shes too ashamed. But my church + pastor has told her many times that we wont think of her differently. Because we dont! We love her so much and we wanna help her get through this. I miss her so much, I havent seen her in 2 months. :( She doesnt really like to talk to anyone from church. She only talks to her mom dad & siblings...I want to call her, but im scared cuz her bf might not lemme talk to her..or she might not talk to me..and i wouldent know what to say!! plz help in any way you can:)

She's probably very embarrassed and ashamed. Even though she knows that you guys won't think less of her, she thinks less of herself. She's probably uncomfortable. Write her a letter or call her, but don't say like "I don't care that you're pregnant". Just be like "Hey, it's *your name*, I was just calling to chat." and don't even bring it up. Just chat with her, to let her know you're still buds.

~Laura~

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yaaaa soo i recently got hacked on neopets and lost everything...then i got it all back....im sick of playing the game and i have about 70,000 YES 70000 neopoints im willing to give away soo if you want send me your screename and pass and i can neofriend my stuff to yOU!!!! AND i have a friend WHO needs a CHEAT to get some (ok i lied ALOT) of money...anyone know how!!?


CAmi

Excuse you people, I'm almost 14 and I play neopets. :P My 60 year old aunt plays it too. Yes.

And if you're going to send it through neofriends, you need passwords....why?

~Laura~

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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?

Yeah, I got mine every month faithfully for like 7 months, and now I'm skipping like every other month. If your friend REALLY wants to know when she's going ot have them, like if she has 6 a year and she doesn't know when to prepare, have her ask her doctor about the pill.

~Laura~

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i have a classmate who has terrible body odour and we duno how to tell her that she really needs a deodrant or perfume! how can i tell her that shes BO, without hurting her feelings?

Just buy her some perfume and tell her that you thought of her when you saw it and you thought she would like it.

~Laura~

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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.

I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings?

No, don't tell her. She obviously likes the way she looks, and thinks she looks good in those clothes. It's not really your place to say "hey, fatty, get bigger close, you look fugly." You shouldn't care what she looks like, actually.

~Laura~

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Okay. I just got a phone nuber from a guy and I was wondering. What do I do with string?

What the hell? o.o That made...no sense.

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