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well I'm a VERY open minded person.I can have any random conversation with anyone.I like to danse and to have fun with friends.And I'd like to make new friends all over the world.

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ok i have these two best friends, molly and tabitha. there the best friends i could ever have and i would hate to loose them, but sometimes they just walk away from me or something. i dont know why, but they never wait for me to go to lunch, ( we hve the same class before lunch) and they just expect me to come running after them, and they always say " oochemo, come on!!! ( thats my nickname), and they will just be hanging out with me and run off together, and then when ever i go off and just leave them alone, thinking they want alone time, they always ask if im mad at them!! and i do get mad at them cuz they always leave me, and i am really getting mad. ive talked to them about it and they still do it. what should i do? im really sorry that this is really long. i just need really good advice.

OK first you have to calm down.Second,sence you've already spoke to them about it there are not really alot of solutions.To me conversation is the key of everything.So i suggest you go talk to them a second time and if they still continue to act that way then you just back off for a while just to make them come after you.Try to show them that theyre not the only friends you have,and if they are then make new friends because trust me you can make your world around only two people.I'm not telling you to get over them and stop being their friend but just take a litle step off so they can see that u actually can live without them.If they are your real friend i can garanty you that they'll come to you and never do what they are doing to you anymore.If they dont come to you.then you know that you are not as meanigful to them as they are for you.I'M NOT TELLIN YOU IT WILL HAPPEN!i hope it doesnt but i've been there too and I lost alot of friends so I can tell you about it.just talk to them and then give them some time.if they dont come back to you then you will find other friends and make sure this time that they are TRUE.
hope I helped!
Larissa

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14 / f and my best friend is 14 /f

well. my best friend lives in another town - not far, like
30 or so minutes. so she goes to another school.

well we call each other our best friend - but the thing is,
she's ALWAYS busy. and like, i thought i thought up a
solution - to just send really really long emails and when
she gets a chance, she can respond.

well i have written several long emails, but she hasn't
responded. i know she's not mad at me cause she does
not have a reason to be, but i think she's just busy.

it's really frustrating - i dont really like anyone from my
school. so i always look to her for guidance with
my problems and such.

i have tried talking to her about it, and she apologizes
proFUSEly but it just.. she's just a busy girl.

i have a diary, but it's not the same as a person.
i have other friends, but i can't tell them stuff like
i tell her.

please help...

I think you should just talk to her about it and if she doesnt react like if she continues to be too busy for you just give her some time.I was in the exact same situation lately with my best friend.I moved last year and lately she never had time for me because she was too busy doing other stuff..I did the same thing you did,write her lonnnnnng letters everyday and she still couldnt reply.my only solution was to back off for a while and next thing you know she calls me and acts like whats wrong with you?you dont even botter writing me anymore and stuff..well she told me the thing was that she was as busy as your best friend is so she never had the time to reply my emails but she alwayz read them and she was happy i took the time to write her everyday.and the fact that she never replied didnt mean she forgot about me..
well anywayz lemme tell you something:if your friendship with your best friend is solid enough then a litle distance and some unreplied emails dont mean sh*t.dont worry about it soon she'll realize something's missing in her life and she'll get back at you.I promise!
And remember:"true friends never go away" so even if you guys arent as close as you used to be,im sure she'll alawys be here for you.

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ok my best friend has new and first gf they hung out like whole spring break and today i asked him if we could catch a movie on friday but he said that he is goin to the mall wit his gf
he said i could come but i dint answer because it rele had to get off the phone
so if i go will i be just a third wheel or is this a good way to meet his gf
i want to know her because ya know i need to c if she is good for him
and please no ooooo u like him and stuf because i dont 15 f

thanx in advance

well i think you should go and have a good time with them.if hes really your best friend he will no let u out and if your not sure i suggest you to go with another friend of yours in case he does.
but anywayz i can understand you not liking him dont worry.just go meet your eventual sister in law ahah
and have fun
Larissou

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