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Im Nicole. Im currently 15 [16 after July 3rd]. I've been through alot of life issues. When it comes to Parents; Friends; Guys; Love; Moving; things like that, I know my stuff. Im a really social person, & Im good with words. I write music. I also adore quotes.
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Hey! I'm about to go to sleepaway camp, and it's going to be one of my best friend's birthdays while we're there. (I'm a 14-year-old girl, he's turning 15.) What can I do to make it special? I can't get any food in, but I really want to do something cool for him. Thanks so much!

He's your best friend right? Is there something that he's wanted for a long time and still hasnt gotten? Or something he's wanted to do and never got around to it? Make him something that shows how well you know him! Most guys have a hobbie that they are totally stuck on, usually a sport, so pick something out that he would love to use while doing that hobbie..
If your thinking of getting him something for while you are at the camp, ask around and find out what things [beside food] that he might want to make his birthday awesome. Those confetti poppers are always fun [where you pull the string and loads of paper confetti flys out all over]. Also, your goig to a camp, you could get sparklers, it may not be independence day, but every night is a sparkler night.

Or, are you more than just friends? Bcuz, in that case..just take him from everyone else to talk to him alone. Tell him how you feel, and if he feels the same, kiss him.

Thanks for asking me, Hope it gives you some good ideas. If you ever need anything else, im here for you.

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Ok, so I've liked this girl for a long time, and during the beggining of the school year she also liked me (I didn't know it back then). Now, she's going out with one of my friends, but we still talk a lot. She also keeps on asking me who I like (A lot!) Every time she says that though, I just ward it off by saying something else. So my question is...should I tell her that I like her, or keep that secret safe with me?

Tell her, she probably still feels the same and is going out with your friend to get closer to you.
If you dont tell her, you will never know how she feels about you. And in a few days, what if she doesnt feel the same about you anymore? Get it out in the open before its too late and you regret not saying anything.

..its better to of told then not told at all.

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The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?

The more answers, the better!

(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.)

Smile. Smile. Smile.
Say "Hey" to people when you walk past them.
Laugh at jokes that you really dont think are THAT funny.
Tell someone you like their shirt.

Show people that you notice them, and you dont look down on them. Thats usually the reason people think others are stuck-up, because they only say nice things to the people that know them. Be more open with others, and maybe they will see how sweet you really can be.

Hope that helps.

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