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Have you ever thought that you had a true best friend??? And then one day you guys are both hanging out and she/he sees there other friends and then diss you???? Dont you think thats really FUCKED UP???? Well that happened to my other friend and she got really mad. {her and another girl were hanging out and then others came and she left}

yeah that is fucked up.
i would be like "that was a bitchy thing to do"
but thats just me.

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lately i have been extremely unhappy, between my friends not talking to me alot anymore and them ditching me, i sit home alot on weekends when all my friends go out and have fun, also theres thisguy i like but i think he only wants to hook up. im just simply unhappy, also i think i am fat and i want to loose weight, lately i have been turnign to alcohol when im home alone so i dont have to be in this world. im always so bored and i just want to get away. i want my friends, i want to go out and party like my friends do, i want a boyfriend, and i want to loose weight. is there something wrong with me.

no theres nothing wrong with you, your just stressed. 1 im sure your gorgeous. so you dont have to do anything to your apperance 2 please dont drink alcohol! just go to someone you really trust and talk to them about it!! You should make plans with your friends just be like "hey, you wanna do something this weekend?" anything if they invite you go. talk to them more!

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alright well like any typical teenager i go to the highschool football games, 1 to hang out with my friends and 2 because i know alot of people that play including my brother.. and like my 2 friends are always fighting at the games for something the boy(i call him e) and so last night they once again started fighting so i wasnt hanging out with them i was ssitting and watching the game and the girl(de) can online and told me to remind her to never talk to e again and i was like yeah whatever and then e told me not to get into it because im always in the middle and i dont deserve that and all this and like i told himi had to get involved and then we were talking about something else and i told him i was sorry i didnt come talk to him but all the drama is the reason why and hes like I would've talked to you but de pisses me off and i was like yeah i know and yeah

1) Can you help me with this drama and how to solve it? I had some pretty good points but I wanna make sure it never happens again because it happens at every home game
2) Does it seem like E likes me? because like, before the game i said how my mom said i looked like i was going to a dance and he said good? and yeah i dont think he does but yeah
3) football kinda confuses me. can you guys explain some of the positions for me?

1)you should talk to your friends. E is right you dont deserve to be in the middle of your friends problems.

2) No, I dont think he likes you. Maybe as a friend but no.

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3)lol, i dont know anything either except one thing interceptions are when a person from the other team catches a pass. haha, thats all i know sorry.

HOPE I HELPED!

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my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend.

you are SUUUUCHHHH a great friend. ya know, making your best friend choose over you or her boyfriend. nice. your going to hell defiantly.

she shouldnt have to choose. if YOU were a true friend you wouldnt try to make her.

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Hi im 14 and a female, see there are these really mean group of girls at my school and they ised to be all my really good friends until 8th grade they started acting ;ike they were rea;;y cool and stopped talking to me. i asked them what was wrong and the act like everything is just fine. Then they went behind my back a nd told everybody some rumor about that wasnt true. My mom says there just jealous of me. Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?

leave them alone. if they dont want to be nice to you leave them alone one day they're gonna be like "hey girlll!" just forget about them. you can get better friends than that. WAY better friends.

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I went to a private school until this year and everyone was pretty religious and conservative.

Now I go to public school and I have a LOT of more socially liberal friends that I get along with better in a lot of ways. At private school, I was the "weird one." Now I'm not. At all.

Sometimes I can hang out with my old buddies and it's fun, but then a topic like homosexuality comes up and I'm surrounded by people who disagree with me.

I just feel like I'm being pulled in different directions by people who want different things from me.

I miss my old friends, I love them, I grew up with them, but I feel like I'm just too different to really be that close now. I don't know how I can balance my new and old friends, not really time-wise, but in my own mind.

Please help. People who do not write in complete sentences need not answer. If all you have to say is "balance your time," forget it. If you had read, you'd have realized it wasnt about that at all.

Thank you.

When your around your old friends you feel different right? Well, maybe you should stay with the friends who your feel more complete with.

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Alright, this isn't a serious question or anything but I need some help.

I have this friend, Bryce, who I absolutly adore. What I mostly adore is the pranks we play on each other. Sometimes we're mean about them but that's just how we are.

He has football off season while I have volleyball off season which is during the same period, 6th. Well, today I guess our coaches were being lazy and just made all the volleyball players and football players go out side and run for an hour together. Well, I was running along side Bryce and a few of our friends when he tripped me, on purpose and I fell flat on my face. It was in grass so it's not like I was hurt or anything but you can imagine how embarrassing it was!!!

Well, I need to get him back...GOOD. But I've run out of ideas and I need more. Any ideas?

you should tell him that he is a asshole. then push him down in a cupful of pudding.

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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.

Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.

Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..

invite the goth girl. (labels are badddd)because it would be wrong not too. If Lauren doesnt like it, screw her. You deserve better friends.

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heyy ok.. umm this has been going on for about a month now and i really cant take it anymore! my friends think ive changed, they think im dramatic, and they think im obbsessed with gossip.. me nd my 3 best friends have been best friends for 2 years now and everything was perfect then.. we never faught.. we never talked about eachother.. nd we were always there for eachother.. this year is different nd were all starting to fight.. nd my 1 friend always takes other peoples sides wen i fite with them.. its like she hates me.. nd i dont think any of them trust me.. nd oh yea my really good friend and i have been hanging out more nd they think i like her better then them and i dont! and they dont believe me wen i say i dont! i said i wanted to kill myself nd some1 told the guidance office nd now i have a therapist! ughh.. my parents now kno about it nd no1 leaves me alone at all anymore! nd another reason why they think ive changed is becuz i smoke nd im 13.. i kno its not smart but ive only done it a couple of times cuz people say it relieves stress nd as u can see theres been alot of that going on in my life! well thanx sooooo much for reading this and please give me adivice.. it would mean alot to me!

FIRST OFF. you shouldnt smoke. SECOND OFF. talk to your friends.

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