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Q: Well, I have this problem where i foregive people to easly and I dont let them know how i really feel. Like if some one makes me mad, i cant just come out and say what i think about it. Instead i just let it go, but then i get to worryed about what happened between me and them that night and wonderin how they feel. I want to ask them about it but, im scared i will look stupid if i do and ill mess everything up with me and them. What do you think i should do? And how do you think i should say how i feel?
look, i was once a worrier myself. what you have to do is just totally forget about worrying its your life you need to live it, you dont need to hide your feelings or your true self be straight up and tell people how you feel you can do this in a nice way just start by saying "look im concerned about our friendship or w/e" you need to tell them how you feel and fast. you can do it, have faith in yourself...you cant spend the rest of your life being a push over...you want to live life to the fullest and your not going to get anywhere by letting people walk all over you

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Q: Well there's this guy that I've known pretty much my whole life. He's my neighbor but we've never really been that great of friends. We both play tennis so I see him kind of a lot in the summer. The other day we were talking online and he said we should hang out more. He's gonna call me when he gets back from basketball camp. I really wanna hang out with him but thing is, I don't know him that well. I don't know what to talk about with him. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to talk about? How can I open up to him more? Thanks, any help will be appreciated! Oh and I'm 14/f
hey, well if you dont hang out with him your never gonna get to know him...so i suggest you do it! he's probably a really cool guy. just talk about his hobbies, your hobbies, friends, family, pets, interests, school, theres so much to choose from! just pick and dont worry to much about it...just let it flow!

always here, -lc

Q: OK my best friend ashley is comming to visit me from CO on sunday and i dont want her to be bored or anything while she is here! Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do?? Thx a bunch!
Plan a trip to the mall & or movies...something fun...make her feel welcome!

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Hey boys and girls, im laura and ive been told im pretty good at giving advice at times although im not very good at taking my own advice, w/e im here to help you so if you have any questions dont hesitate to ask.

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