Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
She lives with her boyfriend. Life may not have always been good, but it is good now.
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Ever since I was a little girl, the only thing I've wanted was to be in love. Like the notebook love, mixed with twilight love. Its retarded I know, and I realize how unrealistic and "rare" love like that even is. But the hope of finding someone was the only thing that really kept me going, and now instead of being afraid that I won't find anyone. I dont even care anymore, I dont care if I end up alone, because it just doesn't matter anymore.
I used to say I didnt care, but secretly hoping, wondering, wishing I would find someone.
But now, I'm indifferent and I think I'm okay with it. I dont even want to be in love ever, I dont want anyone.
Is this okay? It just seems weird that something I've wanted forever, I no longer have any interest in. It just doesnt seem normal, who doesnt want love? (link)
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If you no longer care or not care if you fall in love you must be very comfortable about who you are as a person, and there's nothing wrong with that. Use this time to do things with your life that really matter to you.
Because when you do eventually fall in love, you'll have lots accomplished when it happens.
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