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Heyy. I'm Kelsey. I'm not here to be judgemental or tell you what to do with your life, but it's just my personal input. Most of my friends come to me when they need something, and always tell me that I really helped them out. I've been through aylottt, and most problems out there I have experienced. I'm good with relationships(love+friendship)sports, and a lot of other things. Mainly all that middle school drama crap. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. Love always, Kelsey.
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kels-
i dont know what to do! you see, there's this girl who was a really good friend of mine last school year. Over the summer we seemed to not talk as much, but I still liked her. there was all sorts of crapp going on between parents and now i dont really talk to her anymore but shes made new really close friends and im sort of jealous. im just sort of standing here waiting to be invited to parties and for ppl to call me but the truth is-- NO ONE I KNOW at all (im not exaggerating one bit i swear to youu..) is in any of my classes but all my other friends from last year are ALL (again. no exaggeration) in the same classes. im so jealous and feel like im missing out and to tell the truth, theres no1 in my classes im that interested in being friends with. i feel kinda like a loner [but i hope im notttt!] and im stuck. ughh. & the worst thing is that ive got a "label" that im smart and shy. how can i all of a sudden become loud and "popular" and hang onto my old friendships when theres 14 days of school left?!!? will i have any friends over summer?! help pleasseee give me some advice that not just everyone would give..
thanks =]
much apreciated
blah. STOP SAYING YOU WANT TO BE POPULAR. theres nothing special about popular people. just be who you are, and find people who like you the way you are. just try being a little more outgoing and meet new people. chances are if you are yourself people will like you. hope this helps!
Love Always, Kelsey
T= Girl 1
B=Girl 2
Kelsey--Okay, so T and B were BFF's wayy before I met either of them. But then all of a sudden they started fighting and T became like awesome friends with me. I really love her and everything but I feel kind of bad for B because we're also BFF's. They always put me in the middle and ask me questions about each other. There was this huge debate, but like last night, they made up. They said that they'd both commit more to their friendship. So I thought everything would be good, but well okay. T told me this huge secret and she said it was only because we were BFF's. But she claims to be BFF's with B too but she hasn't told her. B knows it too and is getting frustrated. I feel stuck in the middle.
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stuck in the middle
You should talk to T and B together. Make sure they know you don't prefer one over the other. Make a pact, and stick to it. If you tell something to one person, you tell the other person as well. Alot of friendships are ruined by secrets and rumors. If B tells you something, you should tell T about it. And same if T tells you something. You really need to make sure your friendship stays strong. I know it may be hard, but if T and B have been good friends for a long time, they probably always will be. But they may get sick of eachother, and will both always come running to you. But T and B definetly sound like they will be friends for a long time. And about fighting and making up and then lieing and telling secrets about eachother, its chill. It's just a chick thing. Girls will be like that there whole lives. Maybe T and B are just a little jealous if you become better friends with one of them. Hope I helped!
xOox always
hey kelsey..um so i was really good friends with this girl last year...and like she would ALWAYS walk with me and talk with me in the halls and like now my locker is sorta like 3 lockers away from her.. shes in my gym class and she like just ignores me. i really want to be friends with her again but shes like really popular now and i dont know what to do! and i really i mean really want to be friednds with her..im just soooo confused right now! please please help me!!
love always ♥
a lot of things change in middle school. people try new things, like making new friends. making new friends can equal popularity. you should talk to her, just maybe to reconnect those old sparks and bring back some memories.
props to rebecca.
how do you find a best friend?
you cant exactly find a best friend. you cant just be like "oh hey wanna be my best friend?" being a best friend is really important. you have to find someone that you can trust,some who is is loyal to you as well you are to them, and someone who you will never get sick of. you can take one of your close friends and spend more time with them and tell them things like best friends would.
alwayss.
hey every year i become friends with a group of people and then in the middle of the year the just start to not like me. i dont know what to do because i dont want it to keep happening
find a group of friends that you like being around, and stay super close to them. don't be like, overly obsessed with them, but make sure they know they are your good friends. its sorta nice to switch between groups of friends becuase you get different people, personalities, and its just a change of pace. but you realy should have like one main group of friends taht you can call your best.
alwayss.
so theres this girl right--and im sortof friends with her...but i can tell she doesnt really like me. like she planned a party and excluded me..which was really rude. and shes always talking about doing all this stuff with my friends or other people in my face, and she always has sometihng (bad) to say about my hair, clothes, or anything. i really wanna stay friends with her, but i know theres something about me she doesnt like. also, shes really good friends with like my best friends, so its sortof hard to just ignore her. sorry its long. ♥
Hey this is just a comment for everyone. never say sorry its so long. i lovee reading these. anyways, i thiiiiink i know who this is. but you definetly have to talk to the girl, or maybe your best friends who are friends with her. just be like hey, have i been annoying you lately. or did i do something wrong? if shes your friend she won't mind talking about it. but you can most definetly talk to your best friends. maybe they can ask her if shes mad at you or something. i hope everything works out.
alwayss.
hey i just wanted to say that youre advice is really good and ur amazing at helping people..just wanted to let you know!
aww thankss
i have this friend..lets call her sally..and me and sally were best friends for about a year..then things changed..i thought this change wouldnt really affect our friendship but it definitely has because we hardly ever talk and when we do sometimes sally ignores me or changes the subject or goes away or w/e..in a way i know she still cares about me (as a friend)but i also think she doesnt want to admit it for some weird reason..so what exactly should i do?
okay you definetly need to talk to her. im in the same exact situation. just be like hey "sally", we don't really talk anymore and i really miss that. what happened to us?" and then she will either tell you that she misses you too, or that you guys just need to go your seperate ways. people will always change. i used to have like this best best friend but now shes on a different team and she became really different and we dont even talk at all anymore. i talked to her about it, and things are getting better little by little. maybe you should ask her to hang out, but make sure itsonly you two so you can talk about your friendship and that way she cant exactly ignore you. let me know how it goes!
alwayss.
i have to go to camp for 4 weeks and im gonna miss my best friend very much. i have a lot of fun in camp, i just wish she could come with me. last year there were some troubles when i got home and i dont want it to happen again with my friends - i love them! kelseyy! i love you gimme some advice womannn- love rebecca
awwww beb. im gunna miss you even moree