Im not here to tell everyone my life story. Im here to give advice to people who ask for it. I will only give them the truth and what they need to hear. Im not dishonest and i dont critize people. But i would love to give you advice. =)
Yours truley,
Katina*
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E-mail: Kikyo293@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester
Age: 15
AIM: xTie him down
Yahoo: Katina
Member Since: September 4, 2005
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OK so I have a group of friends..they're just school friends..it's been like this for 5 years now! I hate it..I want to go to the mall or hang out with them outside of school..but how? I can't just self invite myself..I can't invite them over to my house because of family reasons..but I want to get closer to them and be BEST friends with them..not school friends..what do i do? (link)
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When your talking to them at school just be like" Hey, do you guys wanna got to the mall?" or "What are your plans this week? You wanna do something?"
Be confident.
Katina*
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i went out with this kid we will call him C, well we broke up because he accused me of cheating because some one told him i was, but thats a lie i gave my best friend a hug. well we recently went back out and broke up because he cheated on me this time with my best friend, he doesnt get the picture i dont want to date him he calls me 24/7 and he tells me he loves me if i got an away soccer game he shows up when the bus gets back and nos what way i go home and waits for me and really annoying i dont know what to so please help! (link)
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Talk to him. Sit him down and tell him. just be honest about the way you feel. And if hes annoying you then tell him. Just be like i appreciate you coming to m games calling me but its getting a little bit to much and if he takes it the wrong way then its his loss fer loosing a really great person.
Katina*
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So this girl I'm not friends w/ anymore got REALLY SKINNY and she thinks she needs to lose a couple more pounds when she's really tall and is like 20 lbs under weight!!! Her friends (that I'm still friends w/) tell me that she hasn't been eating much anymore and I'm worried about her but I don't want to get involved in it bc technically it's none of my business since I ended the friendship (although the girl doesn't seem to realize this) And her friend told me that a bunch of people tried talking to the girl's mom about her not eating and her mom didn't do anything about it. We're all concered but aren't obsessing over it yet. What should my role in this be? Should I stay out of it or should I talk to her about it??? (link)
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Even if you ended your friendship with her it doesnt mean that you cant get involed. Try to talk to her. Sit her down and express how you feel about her situation. Dont tell her that she needs to stop amd start eating again because thats just going to get her angry. Just tell her that your really worried about her and you want the best for her. Tell her you'll be by her side and if she needs anybody to talk to your there for her. Just see why she is not eating . Give her compliments like "Your looking really nice" " You look amazing!" give her confidence.You never know. and if that doesnt help after a couple of weeks then you will have to talk to her mother about it if it gets even more serious.
Katina*
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well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think
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Look its ok to have mainly only guy friends because thats how i am.. i dont like the drama either..its gets annoying after awhile. Dont care what people say because its only going to drive you crazy. Just mind about your buisness and hold your head up high and dont even think about it. Put it this way..They are probly jealous that you are cool with like all the guys and mayb some of the other girls like hate you for it because you have something they dont..
Katina*
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There is a sinor at school(im a sophomore) I have a chance to introduce myself twice before. I guess im just scared to but i dont know what to do. I dont wanna seem CREEPY...!!! (link)
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Just be casual. Be like "hey you look nice today" or " is that a new shirt?" and just lead into a conversation. Hey you never know until you try.
Katina*
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okay i have a friend and i am on the phone with her and she wants me to come over and i dont know if i want to go bacause i dont really like her sisters and i dont want to go what are some good excuses you can think of that I can get out of this i really need this help my mom said i could but i dont want to so she asks me and i say i dont know but i need a excuse but i dont want it to be mean so please give me some good excuses
love brittany
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Maybe you could invite her to your house and you guys can chill there. If you want to go over there but you dont like her sisters you cant let them get in the way of you two's relastionship. You could talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about it or talk to her sisters and see whats going on between you guys. But if you dont want to do neither of them options then you could say "well do you want to go to the movies?", " Wanna go chill at the mall" or " Maybe another time".
Katina*
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