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hey im a 14 year old girl and i ahve a huge problem. See there is this guy who i've known since like i was 8 or 9 and we have been friends forever. Well the other day he accused me of somthing and hasn't talked to me since. He has completely ignored me and it really hurts. Well i kid of like him and have for a lilttle while but obviously he doesn't know that but anyway what can i do to atleast become friends with him again?
please help me (link)
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its always good to talk it out with your friends. i know how it feels to loose a best friend and it is the WORST feeling. it really all depends on if you did the thing he accused you of. if so .. then tell him you made a mistake and one little mistake is not worth loosing a friendship over. trust me. and if you didint just tell him that it really hurts that he cant trust you because yall have been friends for so long. whatever you do dont lie. bring everything out into the open. i had a friend that liked me.. his name is ben. and i lied to him about something and now we dont really talk that much anymore and it hurts so bad. so yeah. and about the whole liking him thing .. its good if he likes you too .. but keep in mind that if you two ever break up that you wont be friends anymore. hope i helped ..
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One of my closest friends just recently admitted to me something that I found quite disturbing.
She told me a couple days ago " no offense, but my cats are more important to me than any of my friends or family.
She said if her house were on fire the first thing she would grad were her cats, and not her parents or friends!!
I didn't say anything but I was quite upset. I would always pick my friends and family over my pets.
Am i overreacting to being upset? (link)
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your friend is psycho. thats all there is to it.
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last week me and the i was dating broke he said he doesnt love me anymore but i still love him and iwant him but we were in a long distance relationship and it made things hard for us i want to move on,but i also want him back should i tell him how i feel or should we just be friends like we said we would be? (link)
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oh gosh .. i have been in a long distance relationship before. me and the guy broke up. but we are still really good friends. he is like my best friend. but everyday when i was going out with him i always thought he was cheating on me .. how was i to know if it was true or not? i never saw him. you need a guy you can see often and be with atleast once a week. and he obviously dosent care about your feelings, or he would have never said he didint love you anymore. those are the worst 5 words a girl can hear in her whole life. its heart shattering. i know its hard to let go. but start hanging out with some guy friends .. it helps alot.
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ok well me and my friend were in this fight thing and it wasnt even my fault but whatever i always have to appoligize and i called her and shes like well its about time you called to appoligize and its like wtf it wasnt even my fault to begin with so should i be mad at her for sayingthat now or should i just ignore it ? (link)
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you should talk to your friend and explain to her how you feel. i understand you .. trust me. i had a friend last year that was the same way. just tell her that everything always gets blamed on you and you are completely tired of because you dont feel you ever do anything wrong. sometimes its good to be away from your friends for a couple of days and calm down. im not saying to fuss at her but still.. get your point across.
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Ok theres this girl who lives in north carolina and i live in pa. i miss her a lot and i dont know what to do. I have asked my parents several times to take me down to north carolina. so i can see her but they wont. And she only comes up to pa. in the summer. She is so amazing. she is basicly my best friend. Although i just met her i feel like i can talk to her about anything, its weird. But just talking sometime can make my day a lot better. What should i do? (link)
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well im sure this girl loves you alot amd she cares about you more than you could possibly know. she probably wishes she would have made out with you when she had the chance. but just keep talking to her. and she loves you a BUNCH. trust me i think i know the girl you are talking about. you are considered on of her best friends. she will see you very soon. december maybe?? hmm who knows.
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First off, I'd like to state that both me and my cousin are 13 years of age.
Okay, here's the deal.. In the past I've had a lot of prolems with depression and low self esteem. My cousin and I were VERY close, and I loved always helping him with his problem. But one night when he came over my house to spend the night.. I got in a fight with him and my brother. Now I'd seen him like fourty times over the summer, so we were bound to get into a fight sometime.
But this time I finally broke down.. It was way to much, living with a pompous brother, a dad who's always right, and a mom who I can't tell when she'll be happy or right on the edge of blowing up. So over the course of two days, it went from I'm just a happy-go-lucky little cousin, to a emotionally unstable family member.
It had been planned that the three of us go over to my cousin's house the next day. Of course everything was a little tense between us the next morning, but we all went on about our business as if nothing had ever happened.
I stayed the night at his house that night, but brother decided he was ready to go home. For about three or four hours that day we just talked, and I cried most of the time, silent tears.
Now before I go on I'd just like to say I love my aunt more than anyone in the world at that point. She takes me in her arms and just holds me, telling that everything will be fine and that I'm pretty and smart and how she knows what it's like living with who I was living with..
The rest is history. But now my cousin feels like he can't talk to me anymore, and that kills me inside.. Talking to him about my own problems is hard enough, so talking to him about that is pretty much out of the question. I don't want to risk our relationship any further..
I'd love for some advice, but please don't be harsh. (link)
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hmm. thats a tough one. family always comes first. and of course its even harder when someone in your family is also your best friend. you just have to go to your cousin and tell him you are sorry .. and that you miss the days where you two were best friends and could tell eachother everything. if you dont want to talk to him about it .. just give him sometime. sweetheart he cant stay mad at you forever. but next time you see him just go up to him and give him a hug and tell him you love him.
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Last year was my first year at this one school. In one of my classes there was this girl named *Kasey.*
She annoyed me so much. She tried to make me look bad, and make me feel like there was something wrong, or I was doing something the wrong way. But at the same time she tried to buddy up to me. She tried to become my friend and become friends with my bff. My bff doesn't like her(like me) and hse is really getting on my nerves. She is doing it this year to. my bff, her, and i are in the same class. If we do partners she either tries to have me or steal my bff from me and IT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!
Whatdo I do to get her to bug off? I RATE HIGH!!! :) (link)
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i would fuss her out. that usually hurts the most. be mean about it. she was mean to you and its payback time. you and your bff should ignore her and not say anything to her or even look at her. if that does not work just go with the fussing out thing.
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ok well..my best friend (who is a guy) really likes this girl. He is still getting to know her and hasnt asked her out yet but he still seems to like her..i do not have feelings for him nething more then a friend but i really dont like the girl who he chose..hes had some bad experiences and i just want him to be happy, but shes not right for him, i know more about her then he does and i want to tell him, but i dont think hed understand and i think he would just be mad at me..and i dont want him to get mad. The other thing is it seems like she tries to copy things i do bc she thinks its going to make him like her more..and i think someone should just be themself. Whenever shes around he wont talk to me or any of his other friends..i dont know if i should tell him...or let him be... (link)
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you should sit sown with your friend and talk to him. i have been in this same situation before. except it was my cousin going out with a girl. and she had given more rides than the school bus. just sit down with him and talk it out.. tell him how you feel. he seems like a good friend. if he gets mad at you then when he finds out you were telling the truth .. he cant really say anything. atleast you told him.
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